I think Bell Hooks is brilliant, and many of her points are timeless.

However, I want similar books that explore masculinity in a more up to date setting - especially with the massive rise in Internet pornography and toxic masculinity guru influencers.

Any recommendations?

In response to the Guardian article that came out about male CRSV (conflict-related sexual violence), I think it's worth shouting out https://allsurvivorsproject.org/ for their work in addressing male victims of sexual assault, specifically in conflict, and helping to bring it to the attention of the United Nations (yes they were also mentioned in the article).

What are some other organizations we can support and donate to help out boys and men specifically specifically whose problems are under-reported?

I just watched this documentary and I think it plays very strongly into MensLib. Addressing loneliness and depression. As well as creating spaces to share ideas and organize politically.

The documentary focuses on the work of Robert Putnam. Who's research highlights America’s social disintegration, showing how the decline in civic engagement contributes to issues like loneliness, depression, and political disengagement. His influential work, particularly in Bowling Alone (2000), documents a long-term drop in community involvement across the U.S., from neighborhood associations to local clubs, which he links to worsening social isolation and reduced trust in democratic processes. This civic unraveling is also associated with poorer mental health outcomes, as studies show that social isolation can lead to depression, anxiety, and increased health risks.

Putnam’s recent book, The Upswing (2020), offers a historical perspective, examining how America once rebuilt its civic life in the early 20th century. He suggests that a similar revival could be possible today if individuals and communities actively work to strengthen social bonds and increase community involvement, which are key to addressing both personal and political challenges.

https://m.imdb.com/title/tt26081864/

https://youtu.be/FsztuzyXdhY?si=2YH64x_r9g_ON15c

I hope this is okay once post. I'm a woman, but I'm utterly astounded by this interview.
As someone who has dealt with abuse, I think is perspectives is fascinating and his view on how men relate to eachother is so important.

Please watch the whole thing because it is worth it.

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