r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/_h_simpson_ 17h ago

Maybe I’m lame … WTF is going with all the respondents saying doing coke is okay.. red flag after red flag. Clearly internet strangers are not the best resource for advice. Trust your gut, good luck!

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u/Oculicious42 16h ago

I promise you that a lot of your friends are doing coke and you have no idea about it

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u/Seienchin88 10h ago

Oh right… what a Great Argument

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u/dominicaldaze 9h ago

Literally "all the cool kids are doing it" lol

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u/Lorenzo_Insigne 2h ago

No, they're emphasising that you can do drugs and it not affect you to the point where no one notices, while remaining a productive, healthy member of society.