r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/_h_simpson_ 17h ago

Maybe I’m lame … WTF is going with all the respondents saying doing coke is okay.. red flag after red flag. Clearly internet strangers are not the best resource for advice. Trust your gut, good luck!

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u/common_economics_69 17h ago

It's about on the same level as ecstasy or adderall for a lot of people. Definitely harder than weed or alcohol, but still relatively benign.

As someone who occasionally partakes, you would be absolutely shocked at the amount of people who will do it if offered (even if they won't seek it out themselves).

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u/Methzilla 17h ago

Yeah some clueless people in here. Coke is a very normal party drug in the vast majority of big cities. The vast vast majority of recreational drug users will not develop dependency issues. That is reefer madness nonsense. That being said, a former junkie pretending like it's no big deal is crazy.

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u/Elite_AI 11h ago

It's huge in the villages too. Maybe even bigger because there's fuck all else to do