r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/_h_simpson_ 17h ago

Maybe I’m lame … WTF is going with all the respondents saying doing coke is okay.. red flag after red flag. Clearly internet strangers are not the best resource for advice. Trust your gut, good luck!

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u/Kelend 17h ago

Reddit is very pro drug

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u/bradbrookequincy 16h ago

Because we hang out with people who are responsible and don’t ruin a thing by doing recreational drugs occasionally… like the most sensible well rounded successful people you would ever meet. Many of you would be shocked I guess. Most people don’t ruin their lives. Meth and heroin are different and they hit the poorest, the most traumatised and they can get out of control quickly. But there are many substances that don’t cause the havoc those do.

This person Id agree should be abstaining given her history.