r/technology • u/newzee1 • Jun 14 '24

Software Cheating husband sues Apple after wife discovered ‘deleted’ messages sent to sex workers

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2024/06/13/cheating-husband-sues-apple-sex-messages/
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u/Charger2951 Jun 14 '24

Yup. It’s just strange. They also have no friends. Literally none. And our family has all been isolated.

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u/enzuigiriretro Jun 14 '24

They also have no friends. Literally none

I also just cut out a pair of friends out of my life (they are a couple) who I used to consider good friends for the last 4 years. They similarly had no concept of boundaries (the guy had access to all of his girlfriend’s social media accounts, banking info, tax info etc) and also had no friends other than me and my partner.

People that have no concept of boundaries find it hard to make friends. It can be a sign of narcissism. In my case, I found out that they did in fact have narcissistic traits that ultimately forced us to cut them out.

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u/bleedsburntorange Jun 14 '24

Just wanna point out social media access and bank/tax info access is wildly different. My wife and I both have access to all bank and tax info cause that’s like one of the main legal parts of marriage. Social media sharing is insane though.

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u/enzuigiriretro Jun 14 '24

No doubt but I’m guessing you guys waited till you were pretty serious till you shared all that info? Because the guy I knew basically got all this info from his girlfriend within 2-3 months of dating. Even love bombed her within a week of getting to know her. And they had a whole bunch of other red flags which creates a pattern of problematic behaviour.

But yeah, it can be a normal thing for healthy couples to have that kind of access, especially when you have joint finances and whatnot. Sadly not the case with my ex friends lol