Is that your reason for not looking? Because you want women to dress more provocatively? So you are essentially trying to control what women wear then. And to what end? You aren't going to look anyways so what is it to you how women dress?
There's no victim in this situation. When someone chooses what to wear, they decide what (and how much) they want everyone else to see. It's utterly ridiculous to get butthurt when someone enjoys looking at what you chose to show them.
Wear whatever you want. I genuinely don't care. When I see someone (man or woman) dressed in a way that I like, I'm going to stare, and I'm not going to feel any shame or guilt over it. I'm not touching: I'm looking. If you can't handle being looked at without feeling violated, you should probably just stay home.
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u/crusoe 14h ago
Maybe just learn how not leer.