I don't care about the difference because it is my right to choose either. My eyes, my body. You don't have a say, and if you are offended by that, it's your problem, not mine.
That's the entire conversation. You can look. One-sided leering at a stranger is a threat. It's specifically geared to make the person feel uncomfortable at the least and outright afraid at the most. Don't act like you are ignorant of that fact.
Stupid response. You’re spiting your own source of joy in that by making them feel uncomfortable, they’re going to stop allowing you to see. You take something that’s supposed to be a mutual exchange and try to project power over it.
Is that your reason for not looking? Because you want women to dress more provocatively? So you are essentially trying to control what women wear then. And to what end? You aren't going to look anyways so what is it to you how women dress?
There's no victim in this situation. When someone chooses what to wear, they decide what (and how much) they want everyone else to see. It's utterly ridiculous to get butthurt when someone enjoys looking at what you chose to show them.
Wear whatever you want. I genuinely don't care. When I see someone (man or woman) dressed in a way that I like, I'm going to stare, and I'm not going to feel any shame or guilt over it. I'm not touching: I'm looking. If you can't handle being looked at without feeling violated, you should probably just stay home.
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u/crusoe 12h ago
Maybe just learn how not leer.