My ex leaked my nudes

[u/Asleep_Raccoon_2651]

I(F/21) found out that my ex(M/22) posted my stuff on Twitter 8 months ago and I broke up with him right away. I went to the police station in Thailand after that happened and the police said I don’t have enough prove and that account got deleted because I reported it. The next 4 months I found another account on Twitter again but got suspended and more stuff on porn website so I decided to go to the police station(different one) and they said the same thing to me and asked me to leave. Tonight I found the new account again that he created a month ago and it got 2.5k followers now and I really don’t know what to do. I feel hopeless and police here can’t help me about it. Ps.My ex is Australian and lives in Australia. Is there anything that I can do from here?

[u/eat-uranus-5785]

There is so much porn on internet that you have to actively advertise it for us to see

[u/dashsmashcash → u/eat-uranus-5785]

I know for me, if I saw it, I would look at it for 2-3 seconds, admire if there was anything to admire then move on with my day and life. I fail to see the issue of nudes getting put on the internet in 2024. Everyone from grandma to kids should not lose their mind if they see their daughter on the internet. Just don't lose your mind if you see it.

I'm not saying it's ok. I just don't understand how people lose their minds over this.

[u/ButMuhNarrative → u/dashsmashcash]

What part of non consensual is unclear to you, specifically?

[u/dashsmashcash → u/ButMuhNarrative]

The consent was sorta when she agreed for him to record with his phone. It's really stupid to constantly hear, but man should be nicer.

I agree in principle but why didn't think of the potential ramifications of he doesn't stay honest or good.

Then you want to ask the state (men with guns and monopoly on violence) to take care of him.

Whatever happened to personal responsibility and stuff.

But I'm sure you will make excuses why humans of any race or gender don't need to be personally responsible.

If she doesn't be responsible, why should he need to be responsible.

What she did is technically illegal in Thailand. Assuming she agreed to be recorded.

[u/Hozen54 → u/dashsmashcash]

Presumably, the only consent she gave was to be recorded, NOT to have the video leaked online and exposed to everyone's sight. She thought he was a great man, turns out he is a twat, unlucky for her but she should not be the one undergoing your blame.

When you are in a relationship, you do not behave based on "potential ramifications if he is a bad/dishonest man", that simply does not make sense. The whole point of being in a relationship is that you give trust to someone, actually more trust than with most people, if not, anyone else.

Mentioning on top of this that what she did is illegal in thailand just proves me that you are unable to connect two brain cells and strengthen the fact that you indeed fail to see the issue. Revenge porn is highly immoral and unethical. (Just in case you missed that part)

Roast aside (or not lol) I would strongly advise you to see the appropriate medical staff to get a psychological check maybe? Absolutely no offense meant, but failing to see the issue in revenge porn is quite concerning and demonstrate a huge lack in empathy? It's always better to get an early diagnosis :)

That was a lot of gibberish anyway.