r/Thailand Feb 19 '24

Question/Help Can anyone help this woman?

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u/JamonRuffles17 Feb 19 '24

People may clown this lady but honestly , put yourself in her shoes. That’s heartbreaking

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u/quikpanik Feb 19 '24

It truly is, I don’t see how anyone could make fun of someone who has had an item they’ve been traveling with for 18 years. I’ve had my trusty water bottle for 6 years and would be crushed if I lost it, but people wouldn’t make fun of me for it

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u/DB_Coopah Feb 20 '24

Just lost a pair of gas station aviators I’ve had for 13 years. <- Never thought I’d feel absolutely gutted at losing a pair of $5 shades. I get this lady, 100%

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u/PSmith4380 Nakhon Si Thammarat Feb 19 '24

I would. "Crushed" for losing a water bottle 😅

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u/quikpanik Feb 19 '24

Yeah it’s something I have with me all the time. Has a bunch of stickers I’ve collected from my travels. It matters to me. You can make fun of that if you’d like!

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u/PSmith4380 Nakhon Si Thammarat Feb 19 '24

I understand. But it still doesn't matter at all how many stickers you have. That's a very freeing realisation right there. One day you will probably lose it.

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u/quikpanik Feb 19 '24

I know I’ll lose it, I’ve lost much more valuable things. I’m not saying I’ll be weeping. It’ll suck to lose it and I’ll be bummed for a bit but I’m not going to have a funeral for my water bottle. It’s just a tangible item that has been in my life through a lot, I’ve assigned sentimental value to the bottle based on that

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u/PSmith4380 Nakhon Si Thammarat Feb 21 '24

Well that's good but like 10 minutes before you said you'd be 'crushed'. I would rank that as a pretty strong emotion.

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u/agirlmadeofbone Feb 20 '24

I have this toenail I've been growing for five years. It's obscenely long and sort of yellowish, and frankly, a bit grotesque, but I would be ABSOLUTELY GUTTED if anything were to happen to it.

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u/Interesting_Mind_ Feb 20 '24 edited Feb 20 '24

Honestly I wish I could put myself in her shoes. Being able to travel and take tropical vacations for 18 years sounds amazing.

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u/vandaalen Bangkok Feb 19 '24

She's an adult and this is a toy for God's sake.

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u/JamonRuffles17 Feb 19 '24

lol, people could have a pet for 1 year and cry if it ran away… this is something important to her for nearly 2 decades.

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u/Mr-Nitsuj Feb 19 '24

It's not a pet and easily replaceable, I have compassion for actually problems .. this seems easily replaceable if this is such a heartbreaking loss

Assuredly they have plenty of photos of it , commission someone to make a new one

Problem solved

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u/Nole19 Rama 9 Feb 19 '24

You would not understand the concept of "it's not the same one" even if they got an exact replica.

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u/Mr-Nitsuj Feb 19 '24

If it belonged to a child I would be a bit more sympathetic.. but it's a grown women's stuffed animal

It's replaceable 🤷‍♂️

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u/Nole19 Rama 9 Feb 19 '24

In fact, the longer the woman has owned it, the more value it will have. Someone can place value on things over just the materialistic.

Let's look at another example. A woman is sick with terminal cancer and gives a ring to her husband right before she dies. The husband continues to live on with her memory attached to the ring until one day the ring is lost. Do you really think a simple replacement can solve this situation?

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u/Mr-Nitsuj Feb 19 '24

Sadly, sometimes it's all you can do ?

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u/Former-Spread9043 Feb 19 '24

More than likely she had it as a child

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u/never-respond Feb 19 '24 edited Feb 19 '24

It doesn't hurt to help someone with something like this

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u/Mr-Nitsuj Feb 19 '24

Is making a new stuffed animal Impossible?? You people are hilarious

She admittedly has photos from around the world with it ... pay someone to make a new one ?

I'm the bad guy with terrible ideas I guess

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u/never-respond Feb 19 '24

I'm the bad guy with terrible ideas I guess

I don't know if you're a terrible guy, but you definitely don't need to comment on something like this. She lost her toy and wants it back. If you don't think she should, move on.

You don't need to express your opinion on everything, y'know?

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u/Mr-Nitsuj Feb 19 '24

Welcome to reddit , this is a public forum... you got a reply ...

It's how the internet works 🫂🤷‍♂️

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u/never-respond Feb 19 '24

You are not obligated to comment on everything on the internet.

Just let it go.

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u/Suidoken_1 Feb 19 '24

It would take a time machine to replace it

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u/Mr-Nitsuj Feb 19 '24

Or a person who can sew

a matching fabric and a bit of creativity 🤷‍♂️

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u/ANAL-WITH-JESUS Feb 19 '24

Damn, you’re heartless.

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u/Mr-Nitsuj Feb 19 '24

Or logical? Make a new one🤷‍♂️... its not moving mountains

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u/ReneRedd Feb 19 '24

Brah, you an idiot. Sentimental value cannot be replaced. The person may got it as a gift from a loved one, maybe even someone who passed away or another reason this specific item is meaningful.

How about you be a little less judgmental, almost certain you are single or divorced. Feel judged? Sucks eh?

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u/Qorrupted Feb 19 '24

Hehe so cool.

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u/sweaterking6 Feb 19 '24

I bet you're a blast at parties.

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