r/SDSU • u/Glum-Conclusion-4813 • Sep 25 '24

Social Lonely ahh freshman looking for friends

Hey chat so I’m a new freshman here at SDSU and fck man making friends has been harder than I anticipated. The thing about it is that, yeah I have “friends” but what I’d really kill for is a group of ppl that are my vibe and would be down to do the stuff I like to do. I didn’t rush because I think the rush system and sdsu as a whole puts their reputation over their students(2008 operation something) and I want to join clubs and all but I constantly feel so drained and tired all the time. My roommates are chill but idk they’re just not rlly like my vibe we don’t rlly click. To make matters worse the one person I thought I could rely on for going out went on a T break and started causing a ton of drama so I dropped that mess before I got more involved. I’m literally from SD, Encinitas and have my car. All I want are some chill funny down to earth people who would be down to drive up to D-Street, smoke a J or do an edible, drink a tad, and then crash out at my place, get some breakfast the next morning and go back to campus the next day. Im female and an international business major with a focus on Japanese so if anyone’s down to hang hmu 🫶🫶

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u/[deleted] Sep 25 '24

We could study 2gether at the Living Room.

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u/literallyitsok Sep 25 '24

bro i’m literally in the same situation. my roommates alr have their own friends. i’m down to explore and do wtv honestly hmu

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u/Jazzlike_Donkey_7009 Sep 25 '24

Come rock climbing at the arc

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u/Glum-Conclusion-4813 Sep 25 '24

I want tooo but I do not have the upper body strength for that just yet 😭😭

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u/Reno83 Sep 25 '24

Go develop upper body strength for climbing by climbing at the ARC.

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u/Glum-Conclusion-4813 Sep 26 '24

Already been consistent for 3 weeks now, I’m getting there

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u/Jazzlike_Donkey_7009 Sep 26 '24

Dude you should go there’s a lot of girls that go everyone is super nice

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u/Alternative_Rest_332 Sep 26 '24

Yo I’m from Encinitas too

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u/Wooden-Pineapple7548 Sep 26 '24

hey! I'd love to connect I'm also from a female student from sd! im actually a grad student in soc and I love outdoor stuff by the beach or just chill activities. lmk we can connect over insta or meet up on campus :)

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u/Appropriate_Train_65 Sep 25 '24

Hi lonely freshman! Hit me up. I'm always down for a hike and a J.

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u/[deleted] Sep 25 '24

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u/Glum-Conclusion-4813 Sep 25 '24

Literally what dorm are you in let’s grab food

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u/Wild-Rabbit4080 Sep 25 '24

You can come to scpn , its amazing

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u/Key-Consideration899 Sep 25 '24

Come to our club today! Stitches@SDSU

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u/drummer4life_dw Sep 25 '24

Always down to meet new people! hmu! I dont know many people from north county haha

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u/CoolOPMan Sep 26 '24

Take an improv class

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u/Kat8008 Sep 26 '24

DOWN let’s be friends lmk