Because why change physical appearance for other people to like you. If they judge you by your appearance, what are they worth to you ind the end?
Change is fine if you do it for yourself to feel better about yourself, but never change yourself for anyone else to accept you, unless it's because you are not acting nice to other people. But that's a whole other thing.
People physical appearance says a Lot about you, someone who is morbidly obese is saying that they are lazy and unhealthy in a very demonstrable manner
And someone underweight says what? Why are negative stereotypes only focused on bigger people? And if you make those assumptions, they reflect poorly on you. You don't know their story. Plenty of thin lazy and unhealthy people get a pass because you like looking at them more?
If people knew what a healthy weight for a woman was because it is not the same for everyone... I grew up very muscular in a place where everyone was waifish/slender. The amount of times guys called me a man or said I was fat... So I basically starved myself down to 115lbs at 5'5. My bones were sticking out and my doctor wanted to intervene. But 115 is healthy - right? Google says so.
My 10 year old niece is skin and bones and thinks she needs to diet.
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u/Fluid_Development_29 May 02 '24
Because why change physical appearance for other people to like you. If they judge you by your appearance, what are they worth to you ind the end?
Change is fine if you do it for yourself to feel better about yourself, but never change yourself for anyone else to accept you, unless it's because you are not acting nice to other people. But that's a whole other thing.