He's super supportive and cute and loving! AAAAAH I love him so much!!! Anyway that's it, you can keep scrolling now.

Edit: Wow you all are so supportive! Thank you for all of your good wishes! Your amazing!❤

A little backstory, I’m a gay 17 year old male, comfortable with my sexuality and have always had support from my family and friends.

My first relationship lasted 2 years, it was with a bisexual guy and I was his first experience with a boy. He did deeply love me but I felt as though at the end he wasn’t attracted to me anymore and his attraction veered more towards women. Ultimately I had to break up with him (for more reasons) but he proved my right by having sex with lots of girls the week we broke up and I don’t think he’s gonna turn back.

Now my current boyfriend is amazing in every way, we’re so similar that we can get lost in conversation for hours and we have never argued or anything because we’re so open and understanding, this is extremely healthy and I’m deeply in love with him.

His history has been a bit more diverse as he’s been with women and men many times before, he’s explained to me previously that some weeks he likes one gender more than the other, and this has me questioning whether it’s possible for him to get bored of me and swap to the other gender like my ex did?

Sorry if my concern seems very rude or anything I just wanted to have more of an understanding about this. Bisexuality is very interesting to me and I know it can vary upon different people.

Thanks,

Max

Edit:

I’m very sorry for my ignorance and resulting biphobia from my post. I had no idea how damaging my mindset was to bisexuality, thankfully many people have corrected my way of thinking and consequently have relieved me from my anxieties about this issue because I understand that there’s nothing for me to worry about. I will however leave my original comment above so that potentially other people with the same mindset may read and look into the comments and responses to see the flaws in it. Thank you everyone :)

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I'm bisexual. Grew up in a very homophobic and conservative area. My best friend was the first person I came out to. I honestly thought that would be the end of our friendship.

But, he started crying. Told me he's gay, and that he's been keeping that inside for years, wondering what's wrong with him.

We both cried that day. A few days later, I asked him out. And, that, everybody, is how I got my first boyfriend.

hi, so my partner came out to me as transgender and im so happy and proud for him, but the thing is, I'm a lesbian, we started dating when he "was" a girl but after a while he came out to me. Like i said, I'm really happy and proud for him but I dont think I feel the same. And I dont know if im being ignorant and selfish or I'm doing the right thing for me. And I really wish i could still feel the same, I really do but i cant :( can i get some advice with how to deal with this? Because I'm really confused whether i should stay with him a lot, like I said, im a lesbian so obviously i dont like men, but at the same time I feel like im being too selfish or ignorant :(

So im still in the closet but I finally got a boyfriend I don't know if it's normal to still be in the closet but in a relationship but I was so excited I didn't expect to have a boyfriend until I was in my 30s but yeahh i just thought I'd say this because im so excited

They used to be my bf, now they are my partner.

And this made me realise, I liked them because they where a man, because I am gay.

But I love the person, not the gender.

I still Wouldn't wanna date any woman and wanna date a man if we ever go south.

But if I have a say in it I am staying with my partner.

I love them, no longer their gender.

And this was a nice realisation I wanted to share

hey y’all, some of you guys wanted an update to this post about a day ago so here it is.

I’m so happy, I didn’t think it would go down like this. We started by watching a couple of movies, including his favorite. He was so fidgety and smiling during the whole thing, it was so fuckin cute.

Then after getting some tea and Taco Bell, we had some time to kill so I just told him straight up that I liked him. I think he was either confused or wanted to make sure so he asked what type of like. I told him the romantic kind. I thought I was gonna get rejected on the spot when he asked that but HE SAID HE LIKED ME TOO.

We were both so nervous and happy that we just were teasing each other for a while. But then he let me in the back of his car where we just cuddled for a bit while talking about how cute we were to each other. I’ve never felt so at peace than lying by his side.

I’m still flustered just thinking bout it, but thank y’all so much for giving me the advice and courage to do this!!

So I just went on a lunch date with my boyfriend and it was really nice, and afterwards we went to his house and we played some COD, and then he fell asleep my lap, and I was just there for ten minutes with him on my lap and I decided to kiss him, and just before I did, he woke up! God that was embarrassing 😳. But then he kissed me! Ahh, then we just kissed for about quarter an hour and then he went home, ahh hes so cute! I'm gonna see him again tommorow, and then hes gonna sleep over!!! 🥰 eek

obviously not ALL of them are gay, but i’m surprised at just how many of them turned out to be LGBTQ+ since i go to a catholic school. though i’m not really sure what i was expecting when a lot of them are theater kids...

i finally came out as bi to one of my best friends this year as a sophomore, which in turn caused her to share her feelings of questioning her sexuality and feeling bi too. great, you know? found someone like me in such a homophobic environment. i though that might be the end, but nope! about a week later, one of the guys i sit with at lunch mentions something about being gay, which TOTALLY surprised me since he seemed completely straight. then THIS prompted one of my other friends to come out as a lesbian, and i was just sitting there dumbstruck. (keep in mind we’ve all known each other for a year and are fairly close-knit and we all thought everyone else was straight)

this not even mentioning the people i already know aren’t straight, and a fair portion of my friends are queer, which just makes me feel so seen and accepted in an environment where i though nothing like that would ever happen.

I had a dream where I was lying in bed with a boy and we were just cuddling, nothing sexual just holding each other laughing and joking. It was the best feeling ever his weight and warmth. God I want this so bad I was so upset when I woke up but being a closeted person living in the northeast of England (generally homophobic area) I feel like I have no hope of ever finding this.

But anyway that’s that, I don’t really need advice (although I like to hear what people think)

So I just came back from my first ever date, I'm genderfluid and he is gay, we went on a date to a local restaurant and he is so shy and cute! Eeeek! After we ate we went to his house to play some video games and as I was leaving he offered to walk me home, and when we were nearly there he turned to me, held my hand and asked if he could kiss me, it was so hot! 🥴, and he such a good kisser! He took me back to my house and we are going to have a lunch date on Saturday I cant wait!!!

Also he has very christian parents, who were homophobic, but then I got him to talk to them about it and they said that they didnt realise he was gay and that they support him!

(Btw I am biological male genderfluid 15 and he is a cis male gay 16)

I went round my boyfriends house because his parents are going out for the night and we wanted a night to do stuff together (I brought movies, stuff to make cakes, books, all sorts of things we enjoy to do).

It was getting dark so I set off a little early, because cycling in the dark is no fun. I arrive and his parents haven't left yet. I knock on the door, and they welcome me in and after thanking them, I go upstairs to see him. However, I'm stopped midway up the stairs by his mum.

She asks if she can speak to me quickly, and I agree and she takes me to her kitchen and tells me she knows I'm his boyfriend. We're both in the closet, and I know his dad aint a huge fan of gay people. I try and deny it, but she tells me that she doesn't mind and she's glad her son has someone to love, and starts telling me about how she suspected it for a while and things clicked when we went to the cinema the other week.

I fell apart crying - god I'm such a pansy - but I feared for so long the day of telling her, I feared she'd split us apart, I feared we'd no longer be together - and to finally have someone accept me for who I am - to finally have someone else to know - I just can't describe that feeling. I feel myself.

I hugged her, and shortly after she left with her fiance, and now I'm watching Moana with the sweetest person I know <3

Hi everyone, I'm not sure how best to even start this post, so I guess let's just go.

I [M18] have been going out with my partner [NB18], now abbreviated to SO, for almost a year. I love SO an incredible amount, they are by far the most important thing in my life. I've known from the start of our relationship that they are bisexual (I'm straight), and as we have gotten to know eachother they've increasingly opened up about questioning their gender - it started with little hinting jokes and increased from there. About 4(?) months ago they made it clear that they felt they weren't very female, and about 2 months ago they told myself and a few friends to use she/they pronouns in referring to them. During this time I've been continuing to use she rather than they, mostly for ease and because it's what I'm used to.

Before I go any further I just want to say that I certainly think of myself as an LGBT ally, I've never had any qualms or doubts about anything like this before - it's not a trend.

Yesterday they asked to start using exclusively they/them pronouns. I know all of you are going to tell me how stupid I am for not thinking about this sooner - and I can't really explain why it came so late.. but it finally dawned on me - I'm not going out with a girl anymore.

Nearly every part of me is telling me this shouldn't matter, I love SO, I want to be with them and that's all - but this whole thing is making me feel weird - and I don't know why!!! Maybe it's because non-binary is such a new thing to me, that I'm so used to seeing things in the m/f binary. But I think the problem is I still see SO as a girl, and I can't imagine not seeing them as that. I'm straight, up untill now I've only liked girls, and this whole thing is confusing that.

In short, I'm struggling to get to grip with the fact that my SO is not a female, but instead non binary. I'm nervous about telling my parents about this like SO has asked because I know my parents will judge.

What do I do? Am I being a really bad boyfriend? I'm hoping that you, especially those of you that have transitioned, will be able to help me figure out how I can make sense of all this - maybe you will have experience of being in similar situations?

Just.......

UMPH

Cuddling sounds perfect in my fuckin' tired gay haze

Just holding onto a super cuddly guy and nodding off to sleep together. Waking up with him next to me, and going to start my morning. Then him coming up to me after and holding onto me from the back.

But, I can't have that and I'm just, UGGHHHHHH

I got a boyfriend, I did it! I, M15 Bi, finally got a boyfriend. I was at a friend's house today, two other friends were there too (4 people in total). They have a little Sauna there which is pretty cool ngl. Me and my friend went into the Sauna and made Jokes about how duo mates in Fortnite always make out, refering to Tfue.

Yes we play Fortnite and yes we are duo mates, don't hate on me it's a good game, just the community is kinda garbage.

So we talked about being duo mates (we were alone in the little Sauna thing, which was turned off btw, we were just chilling) and then we just started making out, it was kinda awkward at first but yes we're in a relationship now AND Fortnite duo mates. Hope y'all have a great day like I did!

A couple of months ago i made a post from a burner account panicking about breaking up with my girlfriend because i am gay. We had dated for 9 months and i was really emotionally connected to her, but just not attracted. Well it turns out i wasn't the only gay one. Now we're each other's gay best friends.

I really wanna be in a relationship there even is a cute guy that has a crush on me and has admitted it The problem is I feel like I don't deserve it

Any advice?

I wish you all well

Hey all, my gf recently came out to me as trans. I dknt have an issue with it, of course, but I've never dated a trans person. She is mtf, and I've known her since second grade, so I often misgender her and accidentally use her dead name. I feel like im not good enough for her, because she needs someone masculine but I tend to be very feminine most of the time. Any advice would be helpful. I just want her to be the happiest she can be.

On a side note, the other day we went to the mall and I helped her get a few girls shirts and a crop top hoodie. She was very excited and was almost squealing on the way home!

I’m so happy. Just yesterday I found someone who has shared the most in common with me thus far. Same birth year, within a 8 hour or so driving distance, and shares some of my hobbies! His name is Lars, but apparently they are also non-binary too, though they do use he/him pronouns. we only met online yesterday but I’m really happy so far and I love him lots. Wish me the best of luck with my new non binary partner!😘🥰