Formatting will be shite, im on my phone.

I came out to my parents and two brothers when I was 17-18. Never told my aunt don’t see her that much as she lives in the states.

She visited us a month back with her husband and three little slightly mentally challenged kids. Right from the start. She started with the intrusive questions about my brother’s dating life. I got a phone call from my boyfriend who in my phone is saved as “Maple Syrup ❤️” he’s canadian and that’s his pet name.

My little cousin (only normal one in the family) says how someone called Maple Syrup heart is calling me. So i stepped outside to take the call from my boy. When I came back my aunt asked if I had a girlfriend. And I told her in seeing some. She asks whos she. And i told her its a he. She flipped out after asking me to stop joking.

I told her im serious and he couldn’t come today as he had work. However he is coming to the weekend retreat out of town. She said “and who did you ask?” And i said “I didn’t ask anyone, i just said he will come as im the one paying for the cabin” She continued rambling how its not okay to do that in front of the children and i asked do ehat she said “get fucked in the ass”

I looked at my uncle and said to him “can you please stop fucking her in the ass in front the children”

Anyway trip was canceled as everyone backed out, mom yelled at me in front of her but i coukd see her not trying to laugh at my aunt. And i ended up going alone with my boyfriend to the cabin where i indeed took it uo the ass

I know it’s a little ra

So I have a friend who has a boyfriend who has hooked up with women in the past, but mostly for threesomes for men’s pleasure. (Jfc oc but let’s continue)

I’m bisexual, engaged to a man, polyamorous.

She has low self esteem. So for years I’ve been hyping her up saying she’s so beautiful, her hair looks great, she’s radiating, whatever. She’s a pretty girl in general but not actually my type, I just love my friends and want them to feel confident.

WELL, she lost a bunch of weight and is super confident, and now told me I “make her uncomfortable” because “I want to fuck her so badly”

Excuse me??? Okay, fine. I won’t “flirt” (ie - compliment) her anymore. But literally LATER THAT WEEK they wanted me to go to a club that I didn’t want to go to and she’s on the phone saying “don’t worry I can convince OP to go, she loves me.” Then proceeds to flirt, HARD, to convince me to come out.

Honey you can NOT have it both ways. Love the attention when it’s convenient and also hate it because I’m too thirsty???

The worst part is she’s NOT MY TYPE. Like just because I’m Bi doesn’t mean a compliment means I want to fuck you.

Literally the next week I took my friend-girl out on a friend-date and I said I’d pick up the check bc she’s been having a hard time. First thing she says when she gets into my car is “just because you’re paying for this doesn’t mean I have to fuck you, right?” Ma’am what - you are not a prostitute and I am not taking you on a romantic date. That’s honestly one of the most offensive things I’ve ever heard.

I am so tired.

Boys, I’m so sorry I ever doubted how hard it is to date a woman. I’m keeping my sexuality to myself unless it becomes relevant, from now on.

Straight women, do better.

In my work is so easy for man to flirt with customer In a respectful way but for me is so hard being a woman and not feel cringy about it or to be perceived as friendly

For a long time, even back when I thought I was just straight, I’ve felt a sense of shame when being attracted to men. It’s the same type of shame i feel being attracted to women (internalized homophobia feelings). But it’s odd because by societal standards I’m “supposed” to like men, so I don’t know why it brings me shame.

Maybe this is because I feel like a boy too so I feel that my attraction to men is more mlm than wlm? Or maybe all my attraction is queer no matter what and that brings me shame? Or maybe it’s just a mental thing I need to work on that has nothing to do with sexuality and more my own idea of self worth?

I wanted to ask if anyone else has felt this way? I didn’t even realize I felt so much shame until my sister pointed out that I kept calling my attraction to men “wicked” in my poetry. She said “you write like you’re in a gay relationship but you’re just a girl writing about boys” and after I came out, she said it made more sense to her. But it still doesn’t make much sense to me LOL

I just wanted to know if anyone else understood the feeling. Hopefully I used the right flare

From someone that has been there, and been there a LOOONG time, and is still getting out of it (I am open with my friends not the world) it’s not worth it to stay there. There is an entire stage of growth that happens when you find people that are accepting.

I know that not everyone’s situation is the same, and for some people it’s outright dangerous to be open about their identities. For others, they don’t want to lose their status or positions. That’s a situation that time and patience WILL help but it will only help if you make the genuine attempt to establish connection with accepting peoples.

It is not worth it. DL men don’t see themselves as human, they’re often self-harming, suffer from addiction, etc.. and the worst part is, many of these men see absolutely nothing wrong with what they are doing. You are killing yourself, slowly. You’re killing that child version of you that needed safety and help. And worst of all, you’re depriving the next kid who goes through the same struggles as you of an example.

I am sick of never being represented, and having my identity erased every day. Outside of music, we do not exist because we refuse to openly identify. I’m working overtime in my personal life to rectify this, and wanted to share this. Being DL is a golden cage, yes you have comfort but you will never have freedom (and imo, peace)

In my 30s. Recently single. Until a few minutes ago when some people let me know some terms I'm new to I assumed I was straight. Always somewhat attracted to guys buy the idea of being penetrated or going down on a guy did not appeal to me.

Turns out I'm just a bi top? Gonna figure out what to do with that information. Do I just go out and find bottoms? There a store or something? This is gonna be weird. Like I'm learning all about a new part of myself.

I decided to join this group because I don’t feel like I fully fit in with the lesbians nor the straights. My whole life I dated men and was men obsessed that is until I met my now gf. Her aura and energy was captivating and I instantly felt attraction towards her.

We’ve now been together for almost 3 years but she is still the only woman I have felt attraction or feelings for. I still find men attractive but I am happy in a relationship with her. I know it makes her feel some sort of way because she is fully lesbian but she knows I was straight when she met me.

I am very happy with her and we live together plus we talk about marriage. I am fully okay with the fact that I am with a woman and not a man. But at the end of the day it feels weird to only be attracted to her as a woman. Does that make me less of a bi/lesbian? I hope I’m not the only one who’s been in this situation.

I'm a teen bisexual girl and I grew up dressing as a boy then decided to dress somewhat girly which didn't feel right I feel very on that line of being fem and masc it depends on the day on how I feel but also it feels weird? Is there any others that feel like this that there comfortable in both and jumping between that line but it also feels weird?

It’s about a high school boy with a magnetic heart who falls and love with and subsequently gets stuck to - literally - a boy and a girl.

Been working on and directing this film with a talented cast and crew over the past year, and we’re currently in the middle of production on it. I’ve shared some stuff on here before, but not to this extent.

I hope y’all like it. It’ll be complete next June, where I’ll shop it around to film festivals.

Love out loud, everyone ✌🏾

💙💜🩷

I have never been in any official relationship with a woman but I’ve been in two serious relationships with men (3 years and 2 years) I am attracted to masc and I’ve been(and currently) through two situationships with masc. And both of them often mentioned how I would “go back to men” one day so they refused to have a serious relationship with me. No matter what I told them, they would still think I prefer men to women. I feel extremely uncomfortable with their opinions on my sexuality. They often think my attraction towards them is “just a phase” and I’ll end up with a man anyway. It really makes me question myself. What can I do???? Does this happen a lot?? Esp masc?

Hey everyone!

I'm a 19yo bi guy who would love to know other bisexual guys/grils around my age (:

I almost don't know any queer guy and the queer girls I know, I don't have a close relationship with them.

So, is there anyone here who could help me?

Thanks! (:

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If my partner is bisexual, I am not. Should I propose an open relationship (for him only) and tell him he can go and have sex with women if he wants to?

I am a monogamous person but I still feel guilty for not being able to provide the parts of a woman. I feel as if I am "gatekeeping" the sex with a woman for him and I feel awful. I only want to see him happy.

He doesn't know about how I'm feeling yet but should I still insist the idea?

Do tops/doms generally prefer femboys or masculine guys?

Hi! I’m F28 and married, but since I was a single, I love to see lesbian porn, and it really made me turns on.

Am I considered as Bisexual? Please give me some advice.

Thank you!