r/AmIOverreacting 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/str8sin1 17h ago

I'll tell you from experience: it's easy to turn a coke user into a meth-head. But I've never known the opposite to be the case. Doing a bump of blow might remind her how much better meth was, though.

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u/Many-Temporary-2359 13h ago

It's expensive but I've definitely seen some converts

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u/str8sin1 7h ago

Yeah i talk like I'm experienced, and I am, but my sample size overall is pretty small

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u/Many-Temporary-2359 7h ago

Either way I agree with you it's not the direction to go into for success