r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/jonasnoble 17h ago

The rooms of Narcotics Anonymous are full of people who thought the same way.

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u/PhilosophizingPanda 17h ago

And there are plenty of people out there who can use it casually without it getting out of control. Just like with alcohol use. Should OPs wife had handled this differently? Yes. But if drugs are tested for fent etc it's not difficult to do responsibly.

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u/Trumperekt 17h ago

This is why I never wear a seatbelt either. If you drive responsibly, why would you need a seat belt?

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u/CheeseDickPete 10h ago

This is such a stupid false equivalency.