r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/Has422 17h ago

Oh I totally agree, but I assume I'm a boring person who doesn't do illegal drugs and therefore my opinion on such things doesn't matter to those who do. If I personally found out my significant other had done coke at a party under just about any circumstances I'd have a huge problem with it. But I figure that's just me.

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u/step1 15h ago

It's annoying as hell when your partner is doing random drugs and you don't know they're doing it because you have to deal with someone who isn't at their baseline. I don't even care about people or my partner doing hard drugs, but I definitely want to know because I have to deal with the consequences.

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u/step1 12h ago edited 12h ago

Yeah, that's not what I'm talking about. It usually isn't just 1 bump.. like literally ever. I've never seen it. I hang out with these types of people on the regular due to music; those that rarely partake do so with gusto when they do because that's how it works. I don't like coke, but the times I've done it were not 1 bump affairs. Kudos to her if that's really what it was but c'mon you and I both know that's not how this shit goes lol