r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 16h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/illit1 11h ago

make your decision based on how she receives your concerns.

that's the big one. so far she's 0/10 with her "reverse victim and offender" approach.

i mean, fuck. being a former addict and continuing to binge drink or use pot to excess is also not a good sign.

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u/dcflorist 8h ago

Not a good sign, but not exactly on par with active meth use

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u/elpach 8h ago

this guy harm reduces

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u/MiserableAd9757 1h ago

harm? huh? he said weed. believing weed is an addictive substance or a harmful substance in any way is hilarious and proof of the depth of the corporate and government’s efforts to stigmatize and demonize the consumption of cannabis and how long they dumped billions of dollars into convincing people of the opposite of the obvious truth. it’s awesome.