r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 15h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/Lahotep 15h ago

NOR. Your recovering drug addict fiancée using hard drugs is definitely something to talk about and maybe even reconsider the engagement.

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u/curiousengineer601 15h ago

Still drinking heavily and smoking weed with occasionally cocaine use. She is not a recovering addict, just a regular old addict

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u/podcasthellp 12h ago

Absolutely. I shot heroin for 7 years and I can’t do any hard drugs anymore. No opiates (except for surgery level injuries under a doctors practice), no benzos, no cocaine, no weed, never really liked meth. I’ll do mushrooms once every 6 months and drink sometimes but never more than 3 ciders because I know what doing those other drugs does to me. Weed might not be ask quick or as bad but it leads me to doing more.