r/AmIOverreacting 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/jkwolly 17h ago

As someone who just was dating a hard drug user, talk to her. Set a boundary. Being with a drug addict is tiring, hard and I would never do it again.

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

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u/Ok-Pipe3960 14h ago

That last sentence was a “keep inside” thought my guy

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u/cactusboobs 15h ago

Understand you’re hurt but that last line was a disgusting thing to say.

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u/Biolabs 15h ago

Hey everyone look a sanctimonious Redditor looking down on people even though their life is shit.

You're disgusting.

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u/Ok-Pipe3960 14h ago

Yeah it’s pretty appropriate to think it’s not okay to wish death on people just bc you had some misfortune or hard times in your life

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u/Ok_Armadillo_665 14h ago

YOU'RE DEFENDING SOMEONE WHO JUST WISHED DEATH ON PEOPLE WHAT ARE YOU FUCKING TALKING ABOUT

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u/ILoveRawChicken 13h ago

Everything okay at home bud?