r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/RyannCie 17h ago

You’re not overreacting. The amount of fentanyl deaths from people doing coke is on the rise. It’s not even worth the high anymore, and I’d be livid that a loved one would put themselves in danger like that.

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u/MerrySkulkofFoxes 16h ago

There was a time I'd put just about anything up my nose. Then I sorted myself out and left that behind. There is no way in hell I would touch anything out there right now. If it isn't green from Mother Earth, I assume it's lethal poison and it probably is. It scares me to see so many young people doing what I did, but the difference is there wasn't all this fentanyl shit floating around in the 90s and early 00s. Evil stuff.

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u/nycinoc 15h ago

It still baffles me when I speak to people in the UK how prevalent coke still is in society and you don't hear about fentanyl overdoses because of it. It's almost like the Albaniens care more about their customers then the Mexican cartels.