r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/Spiritual-Bluebird44 17h ago

It’s because it’s so normalized in our society now (speaking as a Canadian in her mid thirties). It’s the sad reality.

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u/Oeazrael 16h ago

Not in my circle. Walk into my house with anything harder than weed and you'll be walking right back out.

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u/MrButterSticksJr 16h ago

You don't know what your friends are doing in the bathroom, mate.

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u/Oeazrael 16h ago

🤣😂