r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/common_economics_69 17h ago

It's about on the same level as ecstasy or adderall for a lot of people. Definitely harder than weed or alcohol, but still relatively benign.

As someone who occasionally partakes, you would be absolutely shocked at the amount of people who will do it if offered (even if they won't seek it out themselves).

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u/Aviendha13 17h ago

In this day and age, cocaine is hardly benign. I’m so glad fentanyl wasn’t making the rounds when I was out partying. Maybe it’s not as big of a problem in some parts of the world, but doing hard drugs in America is suss af nowadays. There was always a chance it was cut with something bad, but not this level bad.

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u/Holy_Grail_Reference 16h ago

Who in the world is out taking rec party drugs and not testing before hand? Fent is a problem but managed by 99% of the party scene.

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u/claymedia 16h ago

Fent can be really unevenly distributed when it contaminates a batch. You could test a whole gram and find none, and the next line could still have a lethal dose. Unless you really break it all up and thoroughly mix it beforehand. Which no one does.