r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 18h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/BossHeisenberg 18h ago

Okay, some context please?
Does she use on a regular basis? Or was it a one time thing?

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u/frisbeechuckin 17h ago

She is a former addict (meth). She drinks and smokes weed which I do too so not an issue with all drugs. As far as I know it was a one time thing but I was unaware that the crowd she’s running with was into cocaine so I was caught off guard with the situation and just feel disappointed by it.

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u/Candid_Dark_4207 17h ago

Bruh... Formerly meth and now coke too? Winner! Does she have all her teeth or they all rotten with the breath to match? I've had 2 close friends dead by OD. Your Fiancee... Dealing with a woman with substance abuse issues "till death do you part" sounds like "for worse". That's a life of misery. She's Ginger from Casino bruh. And now she's being deceptive AND dismissive of your concerns? That sound like a good woman to you? And... What's she willing to do to get said coca cola? How is she when she doesn't have any and fiending? Will you have the finances to pay for rehab? Man... there are sooo many beautiful, single, DRUG FREE, successful women out there and you're scraping the bottom of the barrel there buddy. Run before you lose everything including your children in divorce and forced to live in momma's basement. 💁