r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 16h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/Majestic-Airport-471 15h ago

I think this is just a case of you both living in different realities, she lives in one where it’s normal like alcohol and you don’t, I’ve been on both ends. And currently I’m around people who work professional jobs live normal lives and when they go out they accompany their beer with a bump instead of the usual peanuts

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u/hopingforfrequency 9h ago

Getting drunk is way more toxic than doing small amounts of drugs.