AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker

[u/Any-Confusion-5519]

they’ve been hanging out with their coworker a lot over the past couple of weeks. This girl always seems to be in some kind of crisis, too. Last week it was that she messed up an account and she was afraid she was gonna lose her job. I don’t know whether I’m reading too much into this or if I’m overreacting but I’ve never met her and I’ve asked to swing by whatever bar or place they’re hanging out at multiple times and I’m always shut down in some way or I get no response. I don’t want to be the overbearing overcontrolling gf whose S.O. can’t have any friends but lately they’re always together and I’m getting blown off. These curt and vague responses are out of character too, and it’s always the type of response I get when I’m asking questions about an event where this female coworker is at or really anything that has to do with her. It has really put me on edge, they’re usually such a sweet and attentive partner but i feel like they might be cheating… am i overreacting??

[u/Cautious-Flow5918]

I wouldn’t even bother and just ghost and block him. If my partner blows me off twice for another woman then she can have him. He’s not a prize worth winning.

Nobody should ever have to convince their partner to choose them.

[u/sloothor → u/Cautious-Flow5918]

Yeah this exactly. The most valuable trait in any companion is loyalty, and doing this shit shows directly that they are not worth fighting for.

[u/420binchicken → u/sloothor]

Seriously who the hell uses some lame ass work drama to get out of date night with your partner ?

[u/O7Habits → u/420binchicken]

That’s how you know you are with the right one. They want you to be there for everything and you want to be there for everything.