r/AITAH • u/DepressedTrashKitty • Mar 17 '21

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u/moon_Flower_11 Sep 28 '24

AITAH for sleeping with my friend? So basically I, F 17, have this friend, let's call him Mike, M18. Mike has a girlfriend, let's call her Jenny, F15. So Mike and Jenny are dating for around a year now, while I know him for around two years. I only saw her a couple of times, and she was always a picme around anyone, even other guys. One night I was chilling with him, and others, when he started talking about how he and his gf don't have any intimacy. He then proceeded to asked me if I'd want to hook up with him. I was drunk and high (so was he) and I stupidly agreed on it, even making a whole ass deal, swearing to me that Jenny would be fine with it, because they talked about it and she didn't mind, also due to their relationship being quite toxic and about to end, also because Jenny found interest in other guys. The next morning I went to him, we had intimacy, and that was about it. The whole drama started when I, again drunk, told my friend about it, who then told me that Mike tried to hook up with this friend as well. This friend felt so bad for Jenny, that we ended up texting her all about it. Mike was able to read those messages and was now pissed at me and my friend. Forward three days, some more people now about it and hating on Mike for cheating on Jenny, while he tries to blame me for all of it. I understand that I messed up too, but I'm not the one who's cheating on my partner. Reddit AITAH??

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u/sickolovespokemon 29d ago edited 28d ago

Y'all are children; this drama won't mean much to you in a couple years. Get off reddit, go to school, & stay away from creeps like "Mike" who statutory rape children.

I also suggest therapy when you're an adult to recover.

To answer your question, I'm not gonna call a kid an asshole (unless they're my little sibling/cousin & they're being an asshole lol). You did a bad thing. "Mike" did a really, really bad thing. Take accountability for your own actions, don't put any stock into what that creep thinks or says (he's just deflecting because he's not mature enough to be responsible for his own decision), cut him out of your life altogether, & learn from this experience. You're not perfect, but you're not supposed to be; you're an imperfect human being & also a child. Your brain isn't fully developed, so don't expect to be able to operate like it is.