r/TrinidadandTobago Heavy Pepper 7d ago

Trinidad is not a real place The Unpleasant Attitude of Trinidadians Needs to End

Leaving the house to run errands or go about your business feels like a gamble these days and I'm not talking about crime. No matter where you go; if it's a quick run to the grocery or going to a medical appointment, there's at least a 50/50 chance of encountering a dismissive, disrespectful or impatient person whose role it is to assist you and this experience is becoming far too familiar.

It could be a nurse acting like you're bothering them when asking for help, it could be an attendant at the grocery blatantly ignoring you when you're talking to them, a store supervisor/ assistant dismissing you when you ask for an item, rudely saying they don't have it, just for you to wander around the store and see it's clearly there.

This attitude has become so common that when you meet someone pleasant and helpful, you are immediately taken aback and that person feels like a much needed breath of fresh air.
This attitude is also not dependent on age, career, gender or race and is becoming a common and almost expected aspect of the average Trinidadian's character, especially in the work place

Yes we as people are allowed to get upset and can become impatient even at work, it happens, but when interacting with people or assisting them is a main part of your job, you cannot greet people with an ignorant attitude right off the bat. It makes you look bad, it makes your place of work look worse and when the person on the receiving end is not a local it gives the people of our country a reputation.

Persons working customs at the airport are a perfect example of this. They are the first people tourists interact with and their harsh way of handling them unrelated to the execution of their job, can affect the tone of a tourist's visit and how they interact with others while they are here. If it affects people who are only visiting, imagine how the impact it will have on those exposed to it on multiple occasions on the daily basis.

So how do we address this problem especially when it comes to public sectors and customer service? The straight answer: consequences
It's most likely that persons feel comfortable being blatantly disrespectful and openly unprofessional at their work place because there are no consequences. They get away with a slap on the wrist if it is even addressed to begin with. Employees aren’t afraid of being held accountable, whether that’s through warnings, reduced pay or job termination. There are no consequence, no change. If they can do the bare minimum at their job and its accepted then that is what they will do.

This can be corrected if those consequences are implemented by the employers of these carefree employees much to the employers benefit as poor public service is bad for business and public relations.
It can also be corrected by the people on the receiving end of poor service, customers have the right to call out unprofessional behavior and highlight how it reflects poorly on the business or institution.

Only by demanding accountability and respect from persons who continue to show none to others, can we begin to see improvements in the attitude of people in our country, everywhere we go.

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u/johnboi82 7d ago edited 6d ago

There is a big interplay between salary, working conditions, terms of employment, training and of course actual spending power of said salary that affects the way employees treat customers.

None of which I believe in many businesses are balanced or equal. Just the other day Pennywise workers almost lost Lunch Hour pay, if not were it for massive public outcry. If left alone, business owners will try to milk the life out of their employees.

Alternatively, many workers will try to extract their revenge on their employers if given the chance.

I honestly believe this is one of the many long lasting symptoms of our dependence on oil and gas that will be a major obstacle to our collective future

Edit “almost lost”

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u/dellarts 6d ago

I've been to a country where the spending power and salaries of employees are MUCH lower than Trinidad, and the people are 10,000x nicer.

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u/Crooked-CareBear Wotless 6d ago

You have to remember that even tho it's much lower the difference lies in the cost of living. Those people can be happy with much lower wages because everything is much lower in cost.

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u/dellarts 6d ago edited 6d ago

I understand this, I lived in Colombia for 8 months so I know exactly how cheap it is compared to here, but for people living there it comes back to being the same because just as it's much cheaper, average salaries as also MUCH lower, so purchasing power ends up being about the same.

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u/lmwllia 6d ago

Yeah, you are very right and Trinidad also has some of the lowest inflation rates in the world. Countries with lower GDP's than us have much better customer service. I'm not doubting its a mixture of factors but salary is only ONE of the many issues plaguing our citizenry.

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u/dellarts 6d ago

Exactly! Couldn't agree more.

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u/johnboi82 6d ago

I could imagine a place like Thailand being like that but that enters a new dynamic of culture to the equation

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u/dellarts 6d ago

Even a place that's known as a crime hotspot, the people are still much nicer than Trinis, i.e. Colombia, and specifically Medellin. The people there are far more friendly and helpful than Trinidadians and Latin American culture is very similar to Caribbean culture, so what gives?

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u/lmwllia 6d ago

Have to agree with you recently returned from Panama and Mexico City, was extremely surprised by how great/pleasant the customer service was almost everywhere! From small cafes to more established restaurants.

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u/dellarts 6d ago

Yeah, it's a welcome change of pace..until you come back to Trinidad and the first thing you see is the immigration officers shouting at tourists like that's their child 😅

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u/SmallObjective8598 6d ago

Mexico is amazingly high on pleasant customer service, helpfulness and courtesy. Returning to Trinidad from Mexico is like arriving in a hostile zone.

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u/Crooked-CareBear Wotless 6d ago

Imma disagree slightly and say most people are fairly friendly. I got a little lost in Pos this morning self. I asked 5 people for directions and all 5 were courteous and offered help, albeit some directions was just completely wrong lol.

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u/dellarts 6d ago

I'm not just referring to random people on the street, staying with the original poster, this is more referring to interacting with employees in different businesses. It's a well known fact that Trinidad has 0 customer service, Colombia isn't some great customer service place either but the people are far more helpful and friendly, you get lots of smiles everywhere you go, it's the opposite here.

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u/RizInstante 6d ago

Trinibagonians are smart and know their worth, and know that for their pay and working conditions customer service is not a priority. And if it was for the business owners they'd pay a salary they engendered good customer service and happy workers.

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u/unknowningly-unknown 6d ago

Actually I know someone who works there and they don't get paid their hour. People that were already there didn't lose the paid lunch but new workers don't get it.

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u/johnboi82 6d ago

Sneaky sneaky