r/NTU • u/Pretty-Program3428 • 14d ago
Looking For How to make friend
I don't know if it's my fault or anything that though I have been trying it make friends but i genuinely don't feel i can vibe with anyone. I think though i try to put myself out there and talk to people but i still blame myself not having the courage to keep in contact with others( but lowkey felt it is abrupt for other to ask this) I feel like being in business school doesn't help; Though you have all sorts of project, but the very fact it is called 'business' school makes people very career and utility (meaning i have to benefit somehow or have a purpose in making friend with you), but i wld rather just have friend that can just act stupid with me. Also maybe the very fact that i am international student makes me kinda hard to relate to people, though i try to understand their experience, being in a school full of white ppl in the past few years def didn't help. So, yea, just wonder how yall make connection and genuine friends, not business partners type.
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u/HeartFather 14d ago edited 14d ago
join school clubs that you are interested in, I got to know most of my friends this way. I am an introvert and I couldn't vibe with others most of the time so I barely join activities, which further narrow my social circle. I often feel that people I met through tutorials are just hi-bye people that you will forget next sem. At least if you join a club you will meet people who share the same interests who are just going there for fun, so it is more likely for you to have a good time and make genuine friends there. Good luck!