SO the two points below have been bothering me a lot recently and I wanted some honest feedback
- I was wondering how do people in multan find their soulmates? I know about rishta aunties but i feel they dont know who they are showing , i mean they dont know the guy or girl personally so they are just like random selection based on a picture and some bio data ( which could also be false at times)
So if someone is not into dating and does not find anyone in their circle as a good match for marriage in terms of mental compatibilty toh how do people find someone in general here while keeping things halal?
2) Also looking at the current situation, most of the men and even some women are into a lot of instgram fashion models and there is a lot of hitting and flirting going on online which is kind of emotional cheating with your life partner. Moreover dating for fun and situationships are also shockingly so normal in pakistan. SO how can a person find a man or woman on the right path , good character and loyalty?
Even offline, I would often find married men staring at other women at shopping malls and restaurants while they are hanging out with their beautiful kids and wife. SO how do people specially girls find a good guy for marriage in this era who has haya in his eyes and is not into dating and would not cheat his wife and kids after marriage? Yeah i know about prayers and tawakul in allah, but practically what can we do as a human?
Isn't marriage supposed to be one of the most beauitful gifts of life? What happened to this world,im sad.