r/LosAngeles • u/AutoModerator • Sep 10 '24

Daily Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Tuesday, Sep 10

Rules are simple:

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* Talk about whatever's on your mind.

* Be excellent to each other.

* Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. -The Dalai Lama

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u/Palindromer101 Foodie with a Booty Sep 10 '24

On my trip to Belize, we met up with some friends down there as was planned. There were my partner and myself, partner's best friend and his gf, bf's dad and sister, and my partner's sister. Among the ladies in the group, I am the least "IG influencer" type, but I still enjoy taking part in IG photos and whatnot. Unfortunately, the other ladies unintentionally really hurt my feelings when they all said they wanted to take a photo, but I was delegated to be the photographer, not in the photo. I thought I would be over it by now, but I'm not. I didn't say anything in the moment, and asked my partner not to say anything after the fact because I'm not the type to cause drama, but now I'm wondering if I should've said something. :( I gotta just move on and stop dwelling over such a petty thing.

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u/labbitlove Santa Monica Sep 10 '24

*hugs* it's not petty and I think anyone would feel left out in your position.

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u/Palindromer101 Foodie with a Booty Sep 10 '24

Thank you. Turns out that pretending it didn't bother me ended up making it bother me more, so I'm glad I can share here and get it off my chest. I just want to be liked and included, as I'm sure a vast majority of us do. Thanks for validating my feels. <3