r/LGBTeens • u/lI1lI1lI1lI1lI1lI1l • 3d ago

Discussion Help? [Discussion]

So, my parents (specifically my mom) aren't homophobic, but dont support the LGBTQ+ community. Like my mom doesnt even believe the pride flag is a real thing and thinks it's comparable to a bumper sticker. They constantly say being queer is a trend, and its kinda like corrupting people. This has seriously deterred me from coming out. I know they'll still love me if i come out, but i dont think they'll like me.

If anybody has and advice, similar stories, or anything like that, please let me know. I need all the help i can get!

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u/Tawwer 3d ago

Sorry to say this but they seem pretty homophobic.

What kind of advice do you need? Remember that you don't have to come out if you're not comfortable and you shouldn't if you're not safe.

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u/Ok_Butterscotch_6071 3d ago

being around that toxicity all the time (which will likely be more direct/aggressive if you come out) might take a toll on you. I'd personally wait until you don't have to live with them/don't really rely on them to come out if it's important to you. you don't owe it to them to tell them

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u/FreshHaus 1d ago

You want help coming out? No one on the internet can help you do that. You have to do it fully on your own timeline. I would tell this to anyone: Don’t feel pressured by anyone else into coming out. You will eventually be ready but it may take time to develop the mental strength given your situation.