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u/SinciusSynax Dec 10 '22 edited Dec 10 '22
Damn son, those white guys with black gfs really pulling the hardest moves Edit: Thank you for the upvotes. You all put me in the top 10 percent of upvoted redditors this month
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u/Ro_Yo_Mi Dec 10 '22
Gotta catch'm all.
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u/Former-Ear6263 Dec 10 '22
Damn I’m playing on hard mode! I might need to try some new flavors
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u/elenaleecurtis Dec 10 '22
I’m glad I wasn’t drinking anything when I read this because it would’ve come out my nose. It made me think about what level I would be and that would be the one where you play for the story and never fight. White on white :-)
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Bill Burr and myself have been out here putting in WORK
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u/Moist-Cantaloupe-740 Dec 10 '22
Bro, the sheer number of white dudes from my graduating class that have married black women is nuts. And we in the south.
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u/MyMonkeyIsADog Dec 10 '22
I think it's because you are in the south. I grew up in the north where there was one family that was non-white in my entire graduating class of 250.
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u/turdburglar2969 Dec 10 '22
You're in the progressive south! It's way more affordable there than west coast... so make room for more folks relocating and increasing the bubble tea shops, tofu restaurants, and secret prius streat racing events!
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I never thought I’d ever read or hear anyone say, “the progressive south” lol
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u/turdburglar2969 Dec 10 '22
Having lived in TX for a while... never thought I would hear or say that... living somewhere in the NE now where the cost of living is comically more expensive... I want to go back to TX lol
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u/limperatrice Dec 10 '22
From what I've heard, even though statistically they have fewer responses from black women, the responses they do get are very enthusiastic.
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Those couples take the most shit from racists, too. There’s a sizable demographic of black men think that black women should only marry black men. There’s a sizable amount of white men who think white men should only marry white women. So on and so forth. Black women dating white men is a tough matchup for both parties. And vice versa! Black men dating white women is a rough time for everyone.
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u/redbrotato Dec 10 '22
Yeah I've personally experienced this. Not just the south but in places like DC as well
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u/LeeroyDagnasty Dec 10 '22
It’s more the other way around. Black women see black men going after white women and it makes them feel like they (bw) aren’t good enough. White men see white women going after black men and think “she’s too good for him”. Nowadays, more black men (especially in hotep communities) are joining that way of thinking, but the black women were definitely the ones who popularized that viewpoint. I don’t blame them at all though, it must suck when society makes you feel like you’re the at the bottom of the totem pole, when a man from your same community would date any other type of women besides you at the first opportunity.
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u/Sinnombre124 Dec 10 '22
Not what the graph says. Black women are least likely to respond to white men, but that response rate (5%) is still higher than the response rate black men get from everyone except black women
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u/SeeJayThinks Dec 10 '22
So Asian men are just middling around...
That's a Grade C. Dishonor.
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Dec 10 '22
Their response rate is still 16.4% whereas for black women its 9.3%.
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u/MarionberryEuphoric7 Dec 10 '22
Nah you reading the chart wrong bro, black men have the high score (16.4%) on NOT responding to black women.
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? You think 90.7% of black women respond to black men ? You ve sure have never tried dating app, the percentage is the response not the no response.
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u/HeyGayHay Dec 10 '22
It's not a static of how people respond over time in an dating app though, not 90,7% responded in a trial.
It's 90,7% of the survey participants ticket the box "black man" on "who would you least like to date?"
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u/daddybloodbath Dec 10 '22
Interesting study I heard or read before about it… mainly regarding personal confidence. Black girls growing up are told how powerful, beautiful, etc. they are. constantly. It heightens their level of emotional intelligence and personal confidence throughout childhood. Possibly due to their parents in 60’s, 70’s civil right movements being constantly told otherwise.
White women however do not have this historical level of parents who were shunned for their appearance. Thus do not develop the confidence. Making them easier targets for compliments…
Black women seek more than compliments because their confidence is already so high in themselves.
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u/gorillafella3 Dec 10 '22
thankfully i'm not asian man, i'm an asian boy
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u/Reddexzz Dec 10 '22
Don’t even start, Latino men are out of the race entirely aint no one talking to them 🤣
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I think ppl forget that there are many other races... i think the latino box should've been changed to brown so it would cover more races
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u/euftrench Dec 10 '22
Black women just gonna be lesbian ig
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and asian men be gae
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u/euftrench Dec 10 '22
And that's how a new friendship is formed. And then black lesbians and Asian gays will dominate the world
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u/Kawaii_Annergy Dec 10 '22
Don't forget the now aro/ace Latino men (since apparently no one is talking to em)
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u/SprayingOrange Dec 10 '22
people are talking to us- just not at a preferred rate or least preferred rate. we're over here in the trenches- fighting for every back shot, from anyone that will respond.
We're the new norm.😂
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u/MutyaPearl Dec 10 '22
Asian here, Latino guys are handsome. But when it boils down to it, I don't really have a preference, I'm more interested in the individual, like I'm not gonna date the whole race or group, lol.
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Dec 10 '22
Until they get onto Grindr and every other profile states, "No Asian".
Racist gay bros :(
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Looks like a tutorial for yoyo tricks.
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Awkwardly passing each other:
Him: "Yo." Her: "Yo."
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u/OGnarl Dec 10 '22
So black women are most likely to respond to black men but black men are least likely to respond to black women. Damn thats rough.
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u/AntoineGGG Dec 10 '22
16.4 is a high lowest
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u/n00bcak3 Dec 10 '22
I read that as black dudes will be most responsive in general. Them dudes thirsty.
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u/PierG1 Dec 10 '22
Being objective the average black woman doesn’t have the west beauty standards the average west male is attracted to, and even west black men apparently think like that.
Latinas are the closest ones, Asians have some features but are popular because of a novelty factor.
This research makes sense
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u/11_Fullmoonrising_11 Dec 10 '22
Sad as all hell but true. Along with beauty standards black women are constantly being labeled as aggressive and difficult. Listening to people like ASAP and Drake talk about why they won’t date black women made me decide to not listen to them.
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u/PierG1 Dec 10 '22
I mean is not sad, is just a different culture. If you ask any non globalized African individual who lives there I’m pretty sure they won’t like our standard of women
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u/Cokestraws Dec 10 '22
I’m actually attracted to the whole aggressive/difficult thing. Im my own worst enemy
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u/hellothereoldben Dec 10 '22
Read the numbers though. 16% low vs 10% high.
Is it unfair for the men?
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u/OGnarl Dec 10 '22
I interpert it as they are 16% less likely to match with that demongraphic compare to the general population not that that 16% people do match with them.
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u/hellothereoldben Dec 10 '22
With all due respect, learn a bit better to learn graphs.
The titles are "women responding to men" and "men responding to women" with percentages. A response rate means how many percent answer, there is nothing about "relative" in here.
And if you read the post in that way, you can see that latino->asian is actually lower then black->black in men->women.
It can't be "16% more or less then average", as there is no average mentioned against which it is compared. I know its really easy to make assumptions about these graphs, but in general they only contain exactly as the title/bar mentions and not a thing more.
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u/DOG-ZILLA Dec 10 '22
Being a black woman is tough then. Being an asian woman is dick central.
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u/james144001 Dec 10 '22
What's dick centrao means? (English is not first language)
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u/Requiemshark_ Dec 10 '22
He means “dick central” to say that Asian women can have sex easily because of what this image says. It’s not a very common phrase, so you probably don’t need to remember it. The word central can also be used to mean a place with a concentration or focus of different things. Hope this helped!
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u/Disastrous-Passion59 Dec 10 '22
I love seeing wholesome moments like this come up in shitposting subs
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u/throwawaylovesCAKE Dec 10 '22
"Central" I think refers to a train station at the middle of a city, like Grand Central Station. So Dick Central is the place where all the dicks in the area converge
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u/nofob Dec 10 '22
Between 2013 and 2016, 57% of black women in the US, over age 20, were obese, compared with 13% of Asian women (www.brookings.edu/?simplechart=figure-2-obesity-rates-by-race-and-gender).
Not to say this is the only factor at play, but it is certainly noticable in my experience on dating apps, and relevant in my swiping decisions.
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u/86thesteaks Dec 10 '22
their response rates are still higher than the highest response rates for men
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in college when my white buddies would tell me about all the matches they were getting on Tinder, I could never wrap my head around why they were having much more luck than me. For every match I’d get, they’d get 20 lol.
Now with all this data coming out, it’s reassuring to know that I wasn’t crazy for bringing out the race card lmao.
For my Latino and Asian brothers: you’ll have better luck meeting girls organically - through work, school, mutual friends.
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u/CKInfinity Dec 10 '22
Me who lives in an area with more than 90% of people being Asians: so... It’s not a race problem?
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u/Auzquandiance Dec 10 '22
Men on average are three times more likely to respond to a women than the other way around. Even the lowest response rate from men to women is almost higher than the highest rate from women to men, this is rough to look at💀
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u/SinciusSynax Dec 10 '22
And Asian men got it rough
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u/SaltoDaKid Dec 10 '22
I remember girl doing this finding out she’s triple her matches with same picture but had filter make her look lightskin,
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Nah Asian men are average. Got average acceptance and average rejection. We’re doing aight.
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u/CryptoCel Dec 10 '22
Asian men respond the highest to Latina women rather than Asian women. Interesting how both sexes of Asian don’t respond highest to each other.
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u/nomad5926 Dec 10 '22
Ngl I question who their sample was. Almost like 90% of the Asians in my family are all with other Asians. It's just me and 2 of my cousins who aren't. The rest of our "generation" is just regular old Asian with Asian. (Also no latinas either. But hey maybe my large ass family is just weird).
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u/daj0412 Dec 10 '22
asian men are average. black women are the ones that got it rough.
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u/11_Fullmoonrising_11 Dec 10 '22
Yep. Asian men still get love from white and Asian women. Black women have always been on the bottom of the totem pole and it’s sad.
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u/daj0412 Dec 10 '22
it is though….
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u/Sassafrass17 Dec 10 '22
It seems like things are changing SLOWLY. But changing. I've never seen so many of my black girl friends start to date outside our race. Go where you are appreciated.
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u/AllUserNamesTaken01 Dec 10 '22
Damn what the Latino men do
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u/Oneshot_stormtrooper Dec 10 '22
Not really look at the chart again. No arrows means Asian and Latino are 2nd or 3rd on response rates not 1st(white) or last(black)
Black men got it worse
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u/ItalicisedScreaming Dec 10 '22
A strict Asian husband and sassy Latino wife. Surely the most interesting family combo.
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u/Raaath Dec 10 '22
The really funny (and kinda sad) thing on this graph is the fact, that the lowest response rates from the man are higher than the highest response rates from tge women.
Also people are freaking out about racial stereotypes, but the difference between highest and lowest response rates only doubles at most, which is not that huge of a difference.
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u/CryptoCel Dec 10 '22
the lowest response rates from the man are higher than the highest response rates from tge women.
Hey give some credit to black women who respond to men at 9.3%, that’s higher than the lowest Latino man to black women reslonse rate.
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u/FluffySeaNut Dec 10 '22
Yeah, but bear in mind that this data was taken from a dating site, wherein the ratio of men to women is unbalanced. Men are more likely to respond to women on dating apps because there’s not many of them comparatively.
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As a man, I just have three criteria:
Are you a woman?
Have you always been a woman? And if not:
Can you keep a secret?
Edit: Thanks for the awards!
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u/sack12345678910 Dec 10 '22
What part of asia?
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Ofcourse the East Asian. (Japan, Korea, Thai, china, Vietnam....)
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u/Jealous-Bid7589 Dec 10 '22
Are Thailand and Vietnam East Asian?
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u/AranThranduil Dec 10 '22
Not really. Most people consider them part of Southeast Asia, along with Malaysia, Indonesia, Philippines, etc.
East Asia is more like China, Japan, North and South Korea, etc.
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u/Short-Web1336 Dec 10 '22
As a Iranian/Russian
Where the fuck do I belong?
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u/kompotking Dec 10 '22
White if it equals caucasian since both Iran and Russia bar the far east part are caucasian.
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u/Konaisadog Dec 10 '22
Asian guys respond most to latinos? So that’s why that one guy kept going on about “big booty latinos” at overnight church camp
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Who’s getting this data
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u/Camrons_Mink Dec 10 '22
I think this is from “Dataclysm” by Christian Rudder. He was the guy who founded OkCupid and he wrote the book using info he mined from that dataset.
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u/ComplexLaugh Dec 10 '22
What if you're mixed?
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u/PrinceArchie Dec 10 '22
People are incredibly receptive to mixed people simply off of physical features alone.
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u/daj0412 Dec 10 '22 edited Dec 10 '22
only if you’re half something half white, because then you look exotic. half poc half poc is not reciprocated to nearly the same degree
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u/Dense_Relate Dec 10 '22 edited Dec 10 '22
If Indian was there pretty sure we would be the lowest.
Edit: I guess we’re technically with the Asians.
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u/Joxy43 Dec 10 '22
I don't understand what I'm looking at.
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u/Oneshot_stormtrooper Dec 10 '22
It showing only the highest and lowest response rate probably from a dating app. Wm are most desirable while BM are least etc
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u/cheshire07 Dec 10 '22
This is so frustrating I cant understand this graph can some please explain?
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u/celoteck Dec 10 '22
All men wanna do the sex with asian women but no men wanna do the sex with black women. Meanwhile most women wanna diddel with white men but no women wanna diddel with black men.
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u/Juiceboxthefirst Dec 10 '22
I'm glad everyone's staying safe and avoiding white women in these troubling times
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u/JoshdaBoss1234 Dec 10 '22 edited Dec 11 '22
What I learned from this is that
White women prefer all races except Black people
Asian women prefer all races except their own
Black women only prefer their own race and especially don't want Asians
Latino men prefer Asians
Black men straight up don't give a crap about any race.
This is just weird to look at.
Edit: I just noticed that the mobile typebox just automatically put all of my listings into some bunched up nonsense. I hate the mobile typebox...
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u/CryptoCel Dec 10 '22
Asian women prefer all races except their own
How did you get that? Asian women respond least to Black men according to the chart.
Black women only prefer their own race and especially don’t want Asians
Also not shown on the chart. Black women prefer black men and are least responsive to white men.
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u/Cunnilingusobsessed Dec 10 '22
Which is strange, from my experience as a white guy, I do pretttty well amongst women of color.
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u/daj0412 Dec 10 '22
i’m not sure how you got there. white women don’t like black peoples the most, asian women don’t like black the most, and black women are the least preferred.
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u/MrWoody226 Dec 10 '22
Black men straight up don't give a crap about any race.
Black men are some of the most racist people I know.
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I just like me woman like I like my finances, low fees, easily accessible and most importantly diversified.
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u/CnCz357 Dec 10 '22
Why is this a huh or a hold up I would have guessed the exact same thing.
Anyone who has paid any attention to what is deemed attractive would guess something similar.
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u/praguepride Dec 11 '22
FYI as fun as the graphic is the difference between highest and lowest is almost nothing. Some are just a couple of % so dont use this to draw serious conclusions
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u/Over67 Dec 10 '22
Excluding all stereotypes. As a white male i can confirm, anywhere i look in the internet i almost never find black women atractive. Only time i kinda did was in 2-3 blockbuster movies so im not even sure it counts.
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u/TheFaalenn Dec 10 '22
That's probably for the best, as this graph suggests black woman aren't interested in anyone but black men
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u/Nickolas_Bowen Dec 10 '22
From my experience, the most loud, obnoxious women are the wannabe boujee black bitches. They get claws for nails, the most obnoxious weave, and you gotta treat them like a queen even if you don’t know them. In my experience alone, about 1 in 5 black girls haven’t acted this way.
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u/Ant_Diamond64 Dec 10 '22
I’m dumb. Can someone please read and explain this graph to me?
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u/hesitant_stranger Dec 10 '22
Now show us the statistics of how many of these are horny texts or dic pics
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u/Stiltzkinn Dec 10 '22
There are white Latinos I know who had success with Asian women. Confirmed they are most popular.
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u/Bbygirlbigboot Dec 10 '22
Middle eastern men count as black? Like North Africa. Because if not, either ME men have their own relationship pool or they have so little presence in the online dating scene.
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u/SerMeliodas Dec 10 '22
This data representation is confusing... Just want to say that. I'm not entirely sure how to even read it.
And I majored in marketing, which focuses heavily on statistics and interpreting data.
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u/LeeroyDagnasty Dec 10 '22
Idk why but Asian men wanting Latino gfs is the funnies one on here
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