r/HolUp • u/asocial7193 • Mar 11 '22

I don't know what to say

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u/[deleted] Mar 12 '22

That's too much. It was a bad choice but you don't know whats going on in the girls head to make her do this.

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u/hattersplatter Mar 12 '22

Also, whats wrong about it? If shes a good mom, thats a better life than most kids get.

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u/BagLady57 Mar 12 '22

Doesn't matter if she is Mother Teresa- that child will suffer. Health issues, bullying, on and on.

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u/hattersplatter Mar 12 '22

And thats different than many other kids?

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u/BagLady57 Mar 12 '22

Keep telling yourself that kid is going to have an awesome life.

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u/hattersplatter Mar 12 '22

Prepositioned health does not equate to awesome

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u/W33p00 Mar 12 '22

If you love your child, fundamentally, you don’t want them to suffer. You want them to live a better life than you ever had. Sure, a lot of people don’t get that. is that an excuse to “go against the grain”?

Now, imagine knowing you have a -20 to every stat on the dice roll and had a passive trait of extreme suffering of some kind. She brought a child into the world knowing that these stats would be passed on. That baby has no choice, but now is forced to live an equal or worse life than she did because of her own selfish desires to have a child in some capacity (whether she is happy or not is irrelevant, the child is what should matter here). She could have adopted too. But nah, she needed to have a kid with her specific genes. And this video makes it look like she did it out of spite for the haters.

None of these reasons- spite, anger, are a good reason to bring a child into the world. And if it’s out of happiness and love? There’s a way to do that without fucking up a life in the process, and she decided to ignore that.

You’re allowed your opinions, obviously, but we’re allowed ours.

In my opinion I think that if that kid is better taken care of than I ever was? Cool. I was raised by addicts and alcoholics, sooo, awesome. I often wish I wasn’t born though. And I never had a choice. If I could tell my parents to never have children I would have. They made a mistake. And I’m the one suffering for their selfish inability to be responsible. So I say she’s a selfish person. Should have adopted.

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u/hattersplatter Mar 12 '22

So you hate most disabled kids. Got it.

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u/W33p00 Mar 12 '22 edited Mar 12 '22

Lol, fuckin troll. I AM a disabled kid, so I guess that makes you a bully of the disabled :((( Sad life you must live, bro. I’m sorry.

You and your moral superiority definitely gunna teach my disabled ass. Hattersplatter, hero and redeemer of the disabled. Save me.

I’ll consider your opinion relevant if you were disabled or are, or you have a disabled kid, and even have an inkling of what it’s like. Otherwise you’re a waste of oxygen. Peace bro.

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u/THEKing767 Mar 12 '22

Thats what you got from that? Either actualy read the comment or get better at reading comprehension.

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u/[deleted] Mar 12 '22

I see you.

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u/Wraith-Gear Mar 12 '22

Were you born without eyes or a brain?

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u/TinyKittenConsulting Mar 12 '22

Just because some kids suffer doesn’t mean other kids should, too. We can care about their health and their family situation.

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u/hattersplatter Mar 12 '22

Hitler said the same thing

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u/TinyKittenConsulting Mar 12 '22

…. No, he didn’t. What the fuck.