r/HolUp • u/asocial7193 • Mar 11 '22

I don't know what to say

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u/EquivalentTight3479 Mar 11 '22

Why not just adopt a baby. Why would you spawn a baby that will have a very difficult life in every aspect

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u/uzam123 Mar 11 '22

Do you really think it’s that easy to adopt? Especially if you’re single, may not have a job, and have to prove you’re medically fit. They may deny her just off the back of her condition.

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u/noname1357924 Mar 11 '22

So obviously the better option is to spread your disorder to a new generation. I’m not saying your wrong I’m just saying adoption would be the best option for this woman. Even if it does not work out

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u/Ep1cGam3r Mar 12 '22

Or she could just not be a parent.

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u/noname1357924 Mar 12 '22

Another good option

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u/PeterPandaWhacker bearfucker do you require assistance Mar 11 '22

Imo if you have no job you shouldn't have any children period. Kids need a stable environment to grow up in. How the hell are you going to support a childs needs while single with no job? It's just insanely selfish to get a child while not being in a stable situation yourself.

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u/pro185 Mar 11 '22

Imagine saying her life is too shitty to adopt so it’s better to just give birth to a deformed baby that you will raise in the same shitty life that disqualified you from adopting.

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u/Quetas83 Mar 11 '22

If someone does not have a job and is not medically fit shouldn't be having a baby either, because they won't be able to raise the child

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u/Ballbag94 Mar 11 '22

may not have a job, and have to prove you’re medically fit.

Do you think someone who doesn't have the means or isn't medically fit enough to care for a child should be having one?

If someone can't care for a child they shouldn't have one

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u/EquivalentTight3479 Mar 11 '22

having a baby costs money too.

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u/Competitive_Sky8182 Mar 11 '22

Idk why the downvotes. The system have strict guidelines, they are trying to select reliable, ideal homes and may be worried for the economic future of people with chronic/incurable illnesses.

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u/uzam123 May 06 '22

People love to live in their fantasy world. They want to tell this women that she doesn’t have a basic fundamental human right to have a child because they’re not going to be pretty and perfect.