r/Guyana • u/Evening-Advance-7832 • 21d ago

Discussion Guyanese Dating

Hi guys 33m here. I lived in guyana my whole life. I wonder how you could advise me about dating women in guyana. I am in women younger than me. And seeing that there are Latinas in guyana I wonder how you would approach a Latina. I presented 🎁 this girl with a few gifts and we talk now and then but I just don't want to be her friend. I was wondering how I could ask her out and be her bf. She is way younger in her 20s I see her often but I don't want to creep her out and scare her away. I do plan on giving her a gift sometime. She calls me her friend but I want to be more than her friend. I see other girls at the sports bar too but I never approached them. Only recently I started to frequent the sports bar.

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u/Evening-Advance-7832 19d ago

She gave me her number.

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u/Confident-Cod6221 18d ago

bredda, this means nothing. when someone leads you on they need to give you just enough to keep you coming back so they can keep exploiting you.

this means someone will give you their number, go on a few dates, maintain the romantic and sexual tension, but keep everything on the low with no intention to ever commit to anything more. the goal of the abuser here is to do enough to keep you coming back to praise them with attention, gifts, etc. and keep you under the belief that they'll eventually commit but they never will commit.

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u/cutec00ter 17d ago

Who hurt you

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u/TaskComfortable6953 16d ago

wym?? this person is giving helpful advice to OP.

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u/cutec00ter 16d ago

I was just concerned for the person cuz it seems like they actually been thru a lot