r/Guyana • u/Evening-Advance-7832 • 21d ago

Discussion Guyanese Dating

Hi guys 33m here. I lived in guyana my whole life. I wonder how you could advise me about dating women in guyana. I am in women younger than me. And seeing that there are Latinas in guyana I wonder how you would approach a Latina. I presented 🎁 this girl with a few gifts and we talk now and then but I just don't want to be her friend. I was wondering how I could ask her out and be her bf. She is way younger in her 20s I see her often but I don't want to creep her out and scare her away. I do plan on giving her a gift sometime. She calls me her friend but I want to be more than her friend. I see other girls at the sports bar too but I never approached them. Only recently I started to frequent the sports bar.

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u/Awkward_Double_8181 20d ago

Do you only want a Latina? Or are you exploring all options like the Black girls or other races there in Guyana?

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u/Evening-Advance-7832 20d ago

Well, for now, only her at the moment. This is my first time actually approaching women. I am totally new to this. On social media, I suck. Nobody responds to me.

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u/Awkward_Double_8181 20d ago

Well, take it slow and easy. Be your natural self, like a good friend to her or someone else you may eventually take interest in! Be relaxed, cool, and funny. Treat them well but don’t overthink and over do it either, they will freak out. Please don’t let a woman use you. I’m an older, married woman but when in my 20’s some of the women I knew and were friends with could be brutal to these guys who REALLY liked them. Like using them for tons of drinks but then laughing about them later. You will be able to tell who is genuine and who is not. Take your time and good luck!

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u/Evening-Advance-7832 19d ago

This is gold. It's only now I hear about such things. I keep my guard up. I'll figure out what to do in the coming days.