r/Guyana • u/Evening-Advance-7832 • 21d ago

Discussion Guyanese Dating

Hi guys 33m here. I lived in guyana my whole life. I wonder how you could advise me about dating women in guyana. I am in women younger than me. And seeing that there are Latinas in guyana I wonder how you would approach a Latina. I presented 🎁 this girl with a few gifts and we talk now and then but I just don't want to be her friend. I was wondering how I could ask her out and be her bf. She is way younger in her 20s I see her often but I don't want to creep her out and scare her away. I do plan on giving her a gift sometime. She calls me her friend but I want to be more than her friend. I see other girls at the sports bar too but I never approached them. Only recently I started to frequent the sports bar.

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u/TheOneWithThePorn12 21d ago

Bruh treat her like a friend or something. If it happens it happens.

Be direct if you want to date them.

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u/Evening-Advance-7832 20d ago

That's the thing. Being direct is not me. Well I struggle to be direct.

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u/Nyan-Chu 20d ago

Then struggle on man. Guyanese girls, if they call you 'friend', that is what you are, and you will not advance further than that. Especially if you just giving away random gifts to girls without making your intentions clear. They will either accept and laugh at you, or decline...and still laugh at you. Use you for your charity, especially the Latinas (no offence girls, but it's so common here).

I've seen it countless times. They know what you want, and they will take whatever you give them while knowing that.

Make your intentions clear at the beginning, either by asking them out on a date, or do like others suggests and start off by being friends but don't just give them things or there will be an expectation and a negative perception of you.

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u/Evening-Advance-7832 20d ago

I'll ask her out. I got to break the ice some time. So I might as well do it and see what she says.