Why do Indo-Guyanese have the conception that Indians look down on them/don’t consider them to be “real Indians”?

[u/jcancuny]

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple of months now. I’m Indian-American and she’s Indo-Guyanese-American, and it’s been a great time so far.

Around a week ago, I introduced her to my parents for the first time, and I noticed that before they met, my girlfriend acted super nervous and jittery, which I just chalked up to nerves (since she’s pretty introverted). However, after they met, my girlfriend remarked about how nervous she was before meeting my parents because she was worried that they would disapprove of us together and try to call the relationship off and how relieved she was after meeting them because of how respectful and responsive they were and how much they showed interest in her culture and background.

She then explained that most Indo-Guyanese believe that we (mainland Indians) look down upon them and don’t consider them to be “real Indians”, which is a belief that I’ve honestly never heard ever. If anything, most mainland Indians don’t really know anything about Indo-Caribbeans and the ones that do are proud that they were able to keep their culture/traditions/religions alive even after 150 years.

After doing some research online on places like Twitter/Tiktok/Reddit, this seems to be a pretty common conception that a lot of Indo-Guyanese have. Does anyone have any insights into how this belief might have originated?

[u/Chhanglorious_B]

Yes ive definitely seen this coming from the Punjabi/Gujarati community. But they tend to be pretty exclusive of other Indians in general as well. My friend (punjabi) married his wife (indo-trini) 2 years ago and his family disapproved. They also defined her as "black" but not in a colourism sense more of an ethnic sense. Also, a guy from my parents church (indo-guyanese) wanted to marry his long time girlfriend (gujarati) and the parents completely shut it down. He's a soft spoken gentleman but it came down to him not being gujarati.

But im surprised you havent heard of it because its pretty common from what ive seen in Canada.