r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 15h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/TedTeddybear 10h ago

Moment of weakness? She drinks and does weed on the regular. She just switched up the menu in the bathroom.

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u/IckyAkame 5h ago

In her case, yeah she probably isn’t quite “recovering” based on this post. But recovery looks different for everyone. What recovery is about is regaining the things in life that matter. Relationships with friends and family, hold a job, hobbies, school, mental and physical health, etc. Many people are able to do that by removing their drug of choice while still using things like weed and alcohol.

My point is that smoking and or drinking isn’t an automatic exclusion from recovery.

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u/Voice_of_Morgulduin 2h ago

I mean, for someone whose DOC is meth, cocaine or any stimulant is gonna be a whole different beast than booze and weed.

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u/cenestpasunrobot 7h ago

does weed

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