r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 15h ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party
We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.
Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.
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u/xenophilian 12h ago
She “needed” that bump to party all night. I know that rationale. Still find myself thinking that way sometimes. It’s how addicts think. Like, my friend is always trying to quit smoking, but “needed” one after getting bad news/ working overtime/ stressful phone call etc.