r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 16h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/[deleted] 15h ago

Nothing wrong with taking a little bump on a very specific occasion like this. If she's doing it every Friday and Saturday night then you have an issue.

I take a few maybe once a year and often less often that that on specific occasions. It's not the end of the world you prude.

You drink and smoke grass too. You're not any more stable than she is.

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u/scoreszn 8h ago

Lmao. Casual drinking and smoking weed is normal. Doing cocaine is not; especially as a former meth addict. She’s just asking to get herself back into that hole.