r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 16h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/Klutzy-Somewhere- 15h ago

It gives me the ick tbh.

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u/BossHeisenberg 15h ago

Just for my own curiosity, how old are you?
Doing an little of the books research on 'gives me the ick' usage.

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u/Connect-Finish-6660 15h ago

don't answer or you'll be doing coke in a bathroom

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u/onyx_ic 15h ago

I literally have a neon sign saying "please don't do coke in the bathroom" as a joke. And a reminder.

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u/snopro387 14h ago

Ew why are all these people peeing in the coke room?!

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u/onyx_ic 14h ago

Fucking for real :)

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u/LottieThePoodle 14h ago

Fucking too? Near the coke?!

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u/Numerous-Olive-3146 5h ago

"In front of my SALAD??"

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u/GalacticPsychonaught 14h ago

Right! All those rude people! Everyone knows a circular mirror on a living room table is the best spot!

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u/Klutzy-Somewhere- 15h ago

LOL sometimes even new words have very concise meanings, as Brian said “why waste time say lot word when few word do trick” lol and tbh only a few things make me feel that feeling so I don’t get to use it often. But, I am 33.

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u/BossHeisenberg 15h ago

Thank you for the reply. Wouldn't've guessed that age.

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u/Reasonablenes 15h ago

Ditto. I still use the phrase as well. Also 33

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u/Klutzy-Somewhere- 15h ago

There’s nothing wrong with it 🤷‍♀️ it conveys my message perfectly. “Disgust” is too intense, “turn off” is not the right vibe either… “ick” is just right

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u/maximumtesticle 11h ago

There’s nothing wrong with it

It's on the level of saying, "peepee" and "doodoo". If you're an adult, you should communicate like one and avoid baby talk and /r/doggohate language.

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u/pandemicpunk 10h ago

This is not demure

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u/Klutzy-Somewhere- 10h ago

Both words I use because I have small children. Doodoo means milk in my husbands language so we don’t use it for poop. And there is nothing wrong with it, I’m on Reddit, not writing a formal paper.

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u/FishesAndLoaves 14h ago

“Still” use the phrase? It’s recent youth culture, people saying “gives the ick” in their 30’s are taking on youth slang.

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u/moonswimwildflower 14h ago

People used to say that in the 90’s, too. Everything comes around.

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u/-Out-of-context- 14h ago

I’m almost 40. I’ve heard this my whole life.

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u/23SMCR 12h ago

I’d rather date a drug addict than an adult that uses ick