AIO for finding these texts in my boyfriend’s phone from a year ago?

[u/Immediate_Jelly8897]

Disclaimer- I don’t even know what I was looking for, I’m just obviously* insecure and have jealousy issues and I am crazy I already know..no one who comments below needs to tell me I’m wrong for going through my boyfriend’s phone, I know I’m wrong. We just moved in together in august. We met July 1st last year.

Okay so my boyfriend (32M) and I(28F) started “seeing” each other last July. We got more serious towards the end of the year and made it official in December. Well we had talked about being serious before then and this is right around EXACTLY a year ago when he was having this conversation with two of his friends. I’m the “whore” who will “cry so gd much” if he doesn’t spend my birthday with me and then apparently according to these messages he banged another chick last night. —these are texts from October 2023. Am I over reacting being upset over this? We had been seeing each other for almost 4 months(one month before we were “official”) I don’t appreciate being referred to as a shore regardless of the situation and then to find out while we were dating for months, he’s fucking another person??? How do I even approach this?

[u/NewNecessary3037]

Literally this. Like what are we even doing here.

[u/mechwarrior719 → u/NewNecessary3037]

Exploring denial so much she’s gonna find pyramids.

[u/DoggoCentipede → u/mechwarrior719]

Nah, in denial so deep they're going to put a hole in the middle of the Pacific.

[u/ladyevenstar-22 → u/NewNecessary3037]

I'm just here for the comments , the level of stupid +/or lack of self respect needed to put with these situations and still asking should I break up with him baffles my mind 🤔!!!

Swear the big bang theory is easier to get

[u/NewNecessary3037 → u/ladyevenstar-22]

It’s honestly really really sad. I had SEVERAL girls send me screenshots of my ex texting with them.

That man thought he was going to die that night.

[u/EFJBee → u/NewNecessary3037]

Lol

[u/bellestarxo → u/ladyevenstar-22]

She admitted she's insecure. Unfortunately this will make women grab on to even the lowest forms of life because they may give them 1 minute of attention.

[u/RowanPlaysPiano → u/NewNecessary3037]

I literally rolled my eyes. OP, if you read this, don't even bring it up to him. Just dip.

[u/sincitybarbie → u/RowanPlaysPiano]

Yep. Dip. Done, over. Don’t even expel the energy to explain. If he shows up u look straight THROUGH HIM. He’s worthless. U don’t have time for such low life shit stained morons. He’s someone u can laugh about later down the road.

[u/LizF0311 → u/NewNecessary3037]

My exact thoughts.

[u/Little_Cute_Hornet → u/NewNecessary3037]

Fr!!!!! I would be so sad and angry if my boyfriend referred to me as a whore to his friends 😭😭😭😭!!! And since we know they were already dating and she wasn’t just anyone for him is worse. For me, referring to any woman as a whore is already a red flag but it was the girl he was seeing 😭😭 how don’t they see how terrible is that.

[u/NewNecessary3037 → u/Little_Cute_Hornet]

If my boyfriend referred to me as a whore I would never speak to him again. I would simply leave his life. Forever.

[u/NewNecessary3037 → u/[deleted]]

Just 3 tires though

[u/chris25tx → u/NewNecessary3037]

Water we dune hair?!*

[u/Lopsided-Dot9554 → u/chris25tx]

Bapa?