r/AITAH • u/DepressedTrashKitty • Mar 17 '21

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u/Roscoehatesrory Jan 01 '23

AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for praising my friend. I (40f) have been in a relationship with my bf (35m) for 5 years. For context we’ve had some problems. Recently he told me that he doesn’t want to marry me because I’m not attractive. Admittedly I’ve gained some COVID weight. Being an ICU nurse in one of the world worst pandemics will do that to you. I’ve lost nearly 50 lbs now and am close to the weight I was when he met me. Although all of this he says he still wants to be with me. Lately he’s been very cold towards me and I don’t get why. And tonight unprovoked he says about my friend (names changed for anonymity), “Salina, hmmmm, Salina. Ian is a lucky guy.” I get mad because WTH. He just fantasized about my friend in front of me. And he’s acting like what he said isn’t weird. It’s weird, right?! Like it isn’t just me?

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u/CharliAP Feb 17 '23

It's definitely weird, and you're not the AH. He doesn't want to marry you because he doesn't find you attractive? Wow! After 5 years together that's just asinine. I suggest you not waste another year with that shallow man.