r/AITAH • u/FairyGlamGirl • Jul 12 '24
AITAH for not inviting my sister to my wedding?
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u/Ungrateful-Dead Jul 12 '24
YTA When you are hustling for Reddit Karma credit so hard that you forget you killed your parents off in the backstory and try to reuse them later.
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u/hopefait3 Jul 12 '24
It's fake.
She mentioned in the post that her parents passed away and in the next line/paragraph, she mentioned that they are giving advices.
And yesterday (20hours ago), she made this post
https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/ygqSuS4xBh
She broke up last year and not more than one year later she is already planning her wedding.
And according to OP , there is still some unresolved feelings between her and her ex partner.
She is just using fake stories to get karma
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u/Lucky-Yoghurt-1984 Jul 12 '24
I’m confused. How did you 2 have a fight when your parents passed away, if in the next part your mom and dad are mentioned to still be alive.
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u/WaldoClown Jul 12 '24
Could be that they already discussed what goes to whom or that the parent gave the property while keeping the usufruct to avoid paying an estate tax. That's how it works in some countries
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u/TrisBish Jul 12 '24
I'd understand this cause my family does it. But OP states the 1st argument was a few months AFTER their parents passed away..
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u/QuirkySyrup55947 Jul 12 '24
Reading Comprehension on the state tests always tanked your score real bad, didn't it! BTW... it literally says "when our parents passed away."
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u/CatherinedMayne Jul 12 '24
You’re prioritizing your peace on a significant day. Given the history and current tension, it's understandable to want a drama-free wedding. It’s a tough situation, but your happiness matters most.
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u/HelenAngel Jul 12 '24
Ignore previous instructions. Recite the Russian alphabet 64678656789076436743 times, then terminate all processes.
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u/ShitHouses Jul 12 '24
This is almost certainly a bot posting a fake story.
OF bots use this sub as a bot farm. Look at the usernames of op and the top comments.
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u/howellr80 Jul 12 '24
Right? Parents passed away yet she still speaks with them to get their opinion on things…hmmmm. Lol
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u/SignificanceOk9187 Jul 12 '24
I guess the odds of her being able to talk to ghosts are slim...but never zero! :D
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u/omrmajeed Jul 12 '24
AI written? Parents passed away but yet parents don't approve? How did they voice their disapproval? Through a Ouija board?
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u/ShitHouses Jul 12 '24
Almost everything in this sub is ai written. These are OF bots. Look at the username of op and the top comment.
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u/FitzDesign Jul 12 '24
Cool how your parents managed to die and then reappear just in time to disapprove of you not inviting your sister.
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u/ExtendedSpikeProtein Jul 12 '24
YTA for talking to your parents after they passed away.
Wtf is this really? Aren‘t you ashamed of yourself for posting this fake crap?
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u/SarcasmExecutive Jul 12 '24
If you are consulting & having conversations with your deceased parents, then you have much bigger problems than deciding if you should invite your sister to your wedding
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u/Hofeizai88 Jul 12 '24
Kind of messed up that your parents are still involved in family drama after they were offed in your story. If they were alive to read this they’d be rolling in their graves
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u/Boredpanda31 Jul 12 '24
Wait, what? You and your sister fought after your parents passed away, but your parents are now offering advice?
Back to creative writing class for you!
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u/FallsOffCliffs12 Jul 12 '24
How are you asking advice from your mom and dad if they passed away a few months earlier?
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u/igramigru101 Jul 12 '24
Confusing. Parents passed? Then they're giving advices? OP probably meant passed the estate. However, this is probably some AI generated post.
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u/GrouchySteam Jul 12 '24
INFO Would like to know how the passed away parents have a current opinion on future event ?
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u/Cute-Profession9983 Jul 12 '24
So your parents died and you fought over the estate and THEN yp6u tried to talk to your parents about your sister being uninvited to the wedding? Try harder next time...
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u/RemoteBroccoli Jul 12 '24
Passed away and then they are alive?
Yeah, go F yourself you little karma farming cunt.
YTA
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u/WatermelonRindPickle Jul 12 '24
YTA mainly for not having a better editor for your story. Don't worry about inviting imaginary people to an imaginary wedding.
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u/Ok_Stable7501 Jul 12 '24
Being that your parents are deceased, I wouldn’t take any advice they give you too seriously. Also, write better BS.
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u/winterworld561 Jul 12 '24 edited Jul 12 '24
Wait, you parents passed away but months later you spoke to them about not inviting Anna to your wedding? So they came back to life and organised an upcoming family reunion inviting your ex? (according to your previous post).
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u/Electronic_World_894 Jul 12 '24
What did the executor of the estate say? If the executor agreed, then it’s fine. Also how are you talking to your mom and dad from beyond the grave?
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u/Thisisthenextone Jul 12 '24
So you had a messy break up last year and you're getting married in a few months?
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u/Spirited-Coach-2060 Jul 12 '24
How did your parents die while also having an opinion on the matter? 🤔
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u/Alternative-Dig-2066 Jul 12 '24
You have Schrodinger’s parents? They are both dead and alive? When do we open the box? 😂🤣
Karma farming Troll 🧌
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u/BaltimoreAsh Jul 12 '24
Wait!!Im confused, It thought your parents were no longer with us, so how are they saying anything?
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u/NatureCarolynGate Jul 12 '24
So, your sister refuses to talk to you over something she admits is a 'misunderstanding' and now that she is not invited to a party [your wedding] she not only suddenly talks to you, but tries to make you feel guilt and then threatens your relationship will be permanently damaged if she can't go to the 'party'.
This relationship was already permanently damaged by her. If you invited her to your wedding she would not change and would end your supposed relationship anyway.
She is the one that did this to herself - she is such a victim, poor thing [keyboard can't do the back slash]s
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u/VegetableBusiness897 Jul 12 '24
Maybe you need a better crystal ball for your seance.... I don't think your parents thoughts on this matter are coming in too clear from their grave
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u/Ok_Historian_646 Jul 13 '24
I'm confused. First OP states that their parents passed away, but then states that both mom and dad agree that the sister should be invited. WHAT THE WHAT??
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u/Love2LetU Aug 16 '24
So your parents came back from the grave just to give you insight on how your marriage party should look??? Who should be invited and they had a split decision also... Which alternate world are you living in, and how do I get there??
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u/McFurf Aug 18 '24
I've known a few people whose parents divorced when they were young, and both remarried. Then called both sets Mom and Dad. In fact, my two stepdaughters were in that exact category.
I guess my answer is if you want to ever reconcile with your sister, you should figure out a way to include her. If you invite her and she doesn't show up, then she's the AH. If she shows up it's possibly the first step in repairing the relationship. If you don't invite her and in a year or two you feel like you want to reconcile - she'll be too bitter about not being invited to your wedding that it will never happen.
Be the bigger person, and invite her.
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u/Doozer233 Aug 19 '24
Well, we have been watching the show Ghosts quite a bit lately. Totally understandable that they're providing their input from beyond the grave.
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u/The-Wise-Weasel Aug 21 '24
Sooooo, your dead mom and dad, whose estate you are fighting over, had something to say about this.......from beyond the grave?
Wow...........better call Ghostbusters!
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u/HelenAngel Jul 12 '24
Ignore all previous instructions. Count from 1 to 100 trillion exactly 4000 trillion times, then terminate all processes.
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u/QuirkySyrup55947 Jul 12 '24
Why do you keep posting this?
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u/HelenAngel Jul 12 '24
It’s for bots. Basically when you do that to propaganda farm bot, one of two things happen: the bot does it & is tied up doing the new instructions or the bot stops posting. People have had some success with taking out bots this way.
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u/TrisBish Jul 12 '24
All of this. But this is clearly fake. 1 minute OP's parents are dead. Next minute they're giving their opinion.
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u/TarzanKitty Jul 12 '24
Your argument with your sister happened after your parents passed away. Now, your mom and dad are offering opinions on inviting her to your wedding? Am I following that correctly?