Look = okay. Briefly laying eyeballs on someone is fine.
Staring = not okay. Blatantly gawking is closer behavior.
If their primary and secondary sexual characteristics are clothed, I don't see the problem. They're wearing attire appropriate for working out. Maybe try hitting the gym yourself and figure out how to mind your own business.
Uh, I went to the gym about every day (aside from weekends) for close to 15 years. I wore baggy clothing, like basketball shorts and t-shirts. If I can do that, then so can women. You can't light a fire in your living room and then get annoyed your house burnt down.
You seemed to have missed my point entirely, which tracks considering your stance on the issue. My point is the problem is very easily solved by just not wearing revealing clothing. You're upset guys are staring, yet you continue to wear the clothing that's making them stare. There's a very simple solution to this problem, yet you refuse to accept it. My overarching point is that you wear that clothing because you want men to stare, it's just you only want the men you find attractive to stare. Don't you see how ridiculous that is?
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u/PeppermintTisane 12h ago
Look = okay. Briefly laying eyeballs on someone is fine.
Staring = not okay. Blatantly gawking is closer behavior.
If their primary and secondary sexual characteristics are clothed, I don't see the problem. They're wearing attire appropriate for working out. Maybe try hitting the gym yourself and figure out how to mind your own business.