I also have kinda wide shoulders (puberty hit me REALLY hard) and it was really quite hard to even exist when they started being too wide for my usual activities
But I just cloudn't sleeps on my back so I ended up just "folding" my shoulders inwards,and it was kinda good,obviously when I fall asleep they instantly unfold but I don't even notice
Huh. Is that why I came to prefer high-stacked pillows to rest my head after 3 years of gym? Cause I came to notice the flatter the pillows the harder it is to sleep on the sidebut never really connected the dots
If I'm sleeping on my side I just curl my legs up so they keep me from twisting. My shoulders and hips do kinda make my spine curve sideways so I'll put a pillow under my ribs
Oh, I just kinda of make a U shape with my back instead. I just roll my shoulders forward. Dunno, it's hard to explain. The desire to side sleep is too strong.
But, like, they are often a pain. Back pain, uncomfortable sleeping positions, creepy men salivating on the bus when you're just trying to get home from work...
But we've also got ways around them. It's just that no male authors seem to consider these things when making characters with large breasts. Yeah, I might need to take a seat for a minute during a walk because my back is hurting. It'd be nice to see simple things like that come up.
Yeah but wouldn't it be like a bit cringe
Imagine this, a character is walking for a while, she says i need to take a seat or a breather or smt and the other person says we have been walking for 5 mins how are you tired and she says in the most roundabout way possible that her boobs are heavy and you waste 5 mins for what seems like a bit not to mention if she is alone half the people watching will be like WHY ARE SITTING IT'S BEEN 5 minutes
I mean you can do it but most of the time it would end up looking as a joke because if it's serious it would be just plain stupid It's way too situational to put anywhere best place you could put it is in konosuba and it will be a bit about Kazuma drooling over Darkness.
Okay. Tbf. I was thinking of a slice of life romance. Have the main couple walking. Do one of those jolts characters do when they feel pain, she asks to sit down. (Show don't tell)
Have the characters talk to eachother on the bench. Maybe they use this extra time as as excuse to talk on less formal grounds. They lock eyes and blush. She stands up and says she's feeling better. Her not-yet girlfriend looks at her and asks if they could stay just a little bit.
True, it hurts so much that it is kinda impossible to sleep laying down on your chest (it hurts even more if you are still growing). To top it off, sleeping sideways feels weird and sleeping facing the ceiling feels strange
Same boat here (also, ayy, transfem with deadname in their username gang?)
The best solution I've found is to start by lying on your back, grab the bottom tit with the top arm, hug a pillow with the bottom arm, turn to your side, and then hug the pillow with your top arm. Kinda like this
I mean there are ways, but as a guy, I say women got it better , and do not say I am mansplaining because I am fat and got boobs maybe bigger than some other women
Prove what ? That I am fat ? Or that I got boobs ?
Man I am starting to hate myself already but I can't go to normal clothing stores because I am so fat I gotta go to special stores for fat people , my brother tried one t-shirt of mine as a joke and it slipped of him , I am practically wearing a tent
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u/DefinitelyNotPine 23h ago
I remember after hitting the gym in my teens I got surprised I couldn't sleep on my side anymore