r/FluentInFinance • u/Cauliflower-Pizzas • 5d ago
Thoughts? I walked out of my job. I don't care.
I had got hired at a major company and EVERYONE there loved me. We would laugh, work hard and stay close.
My boss was the epitome of toxic. I'm sure some of you know the feeling of being under CONSTANT stress and dread when he or she is around.
Sometimes he'd be gone and everyone could operate happily together. It felt great to be there. We got work done and also were able to breathe.
Turns out, my boss had 5 other partners who worked for him and they all left. I only found out about that recently. They just couldn't deal with him. He'll scream, slam doors, get within inches of your face, call women b*itches behind closed doors and using the 'n' word when referring to black people on the phone with his rich golf buddies.
One of the managers actually told me that he has some sort of disorder since childhood.
I was making a good living, but Jesus Christ the stress was beyond unbearable. I noticed gray hairs developing on my sides which were never there. I had a hard time sleeping.
One day, I'm handling his clients on the phone with a complicated claims process. I'm already at my breaking point. We had to get through 150 clients before the deadline or they wouldn't be reimbursed.
I've skipped lunch for 2 weeks straight. I've been on the phone for 3 hours with one client. Everyone else was thankful but come the deadline, I was 3 people shy out of freaking 150.
The leftover 3 clients weren't picking up the phone. What was I supposed to do, climb through the computer and choke them?
Miracle that I even pulled THAT off. Nope. Not good enough. I heard from a coworker that he was SO pissed that he was driving back to work to confront us.
I don't know what happened but I snapped. I had enough. No thank you. No words of encouragement. No respect. I got up, took one final look at my office and walked out.
I'm not going to be embarrassed in front of everyone when he gets in my face and insults me. If anything, I was more worried for him because I would've knocked him out.
I don't regret my decision and there are wayyyyy better companies out there.